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Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Licensed in: New York
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Insurance accepted: Aetna, Anthem, BlueCross and BlueShield, Carelon, Emblem, Empire BlueCross, NYSHIP | NY State Empire Plan, Oxford
Private pay rate: $150 - $300
To be human is to need others, and this is no flaw or weakness." -Dr. Sue Johnson
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT's style
đ Warm đ Humorous đ„ Empowering đ€ CollaborativeWhy Bassy Schwartz, LMFT chose to be in the helping profession
Many of the couples I work with are thoughtful, high-functioning individuals who have tried to âfigure it outâ on their own, but find themselves repeating the same dynamics. Together, we gently uncover the patterns that are getting in the way of connection. From there we create a space where both partners feel understood, and begin to rebuild communication, trust, and emotional closeness.
When your relationship starts to feel strained, it can be painful and confusing. You might miss the closeness you once had, feel unheard in conversations, or find yourselves stuck in patterns that leave both of you feeling disconnected.
You may notice:
Conversations turning into frustration or silence
A growing emotional distance between you
A sense that something isnât working, but not knowing how to fix it
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT's approach
Our work is focused on helping you reconnectânot just manage conflict, but truly feel like a team again. We identify and shift the deeper relational patterns driving conflict, disconnection, and emotional distance. Rather than staying at the surface, we work at the level where meaningful and lasting change happens. The goal is not just to improve communication, but to fundamentally change how you relate to each other.
If youâre looking for a supportive place to work through whatâs happening in your relationship, I invite you to schedule a free 15-minute consultation.
What you can expect from sessions with Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
In our sessions, you can expect an atmosphere that balances professionalism with a personal touch, creating a comfortable and genuine connection between us. It's a space where you can be yourself without judgment, fostering a sense of safety and trust while encouraging you to embrace challenges for personal growth. We will engage in deep and meaningful work, addressing your concerns and working toward impactful, lasting results. Throughout our sessions, I will approach your experiences with an open mind, avoid labels or judgment, and ensure that your thoughts and emotions are respected and valued in our therapeutic journey.
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT's experience working with the Jewish community
My experience within the Jewish community has been deeply rewarding, encompassing various facets of community involvement. I have actively participated in initiatives related to infertility, including raising awareness, developing programming, and collaborating with the PUAH Cares Team for case management. Additionally, I've been engaged in advocating for Agunot, promoting awareness, creating programming, and offering professional support through organizations like ORA. Beyond these specific areas, I've taken an active role in serving on synagogue boards.
Our vibrant Jewish community possesses remarkable qualities, yet it also presents opportunities for growth in handling common challenges. I find great fulfillment in contributing to our community by creating spaces for critical analysis, expansion of dialogue and services, and transformation of approaches to better address these issues. It is my hope that by working together, we can enhance the support and resources available to our community members and foster positive change within our close-knit Jewish community.
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Approaches
- Attachment-based
- Couples Counseling
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family Therapy
- Inner child work
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Premarital Counseling
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Trauma Focused Therapy
Concerns
Languages spoken
EnglishAges
AdultsPeople I work with
Individuals Families Couples GroupsPersonal religious affiliations
OrthodoxJewish community experience
ExtensiveLicensed to work in
New YorkNearby areas within a short commute to my in person office
Brooklyn, Cedarhurst, Far Rockaway, Five Towns, Flatbush, Flushing, Forest Hills, Great Neck, Hewlett, Kew Gardens Hills, Lawrence, Long Island, North Woodmere, West Hempstead, Woodmere5 years in practice
Licenses
- LMFT by New York State 2023. License number 002149
Degrees
- MAMFT by North Central University 2021
Certificates
- EFT Externship by ICEEFT 2021
- EFT Core Skills by ICEFT 2025
Average costs per session
$150 - $300
Payment Methods
- Insurance
- Sliding Scale
- Free consultation
- Cash
- Check
- Credit Card
- Zelle Quick Pay
- Venmo
Insurances
- Aetna
- Anthem
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Carelon
- Emblem
- Empire BlueCross
- NYSHIP | NY State Empire Plan
- Oxford
What people have to say about working with me:
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Bassy has a warmth and presence that immediately puts you at ease â in a deeply human, compassionate way. She has an incredible gift for creating a safe, nonjudgmental space where it's easy to open up, even about the difficult stuff.
E.T.
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Bassy is a fantastic therapist who will hold space for your emotions while guiding you to better relationships! She is an excellent communicator and connects beautifully to her clients with her warmth and authenticity.
R.K.
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Bassy is one of the most intuitive health professionals I've met. Her dedication to taking her experience and sharing it with her clients is demonstrable. She goes the extra mile because more than anything she comes off that she wants the power of the relationship between her and her clients to be healing.
M.O.
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Bassy is a knowledgeable and skilled therapist who can skillfully guide and help a client through challenging or difficult situations .She is compassionate and present. I would highly recommend !
C. R.
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