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Professionals Who Specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Michali Friedman, LCSW
Therapists, LCSW-C, Marriage & Sex Therapist
"Collaboration is the cornerstone of my therapy approach. I believe in working together with my clients to identify goals, increase awareness of patterns that impact these goals, and develop the necessary skills for achieving them. Thankfully, I have …
Rachel Lowinger
Therapists, PhD
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Lawrence
- $250
"My style is warm and personable and I am looking forward to getting to knowing you.
Michal Goldman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Kew Gardens Hills
- $250
- 3 reviews
"My approach to therapy is primarily experiential, which means I focus on helping you actively experience new, more secure ways of relating to yourself and to each other in the room, rather than only talking about what you …
Malka Katzenstein
Relationship and Couples Coach
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Montebello
- $150 - $250
"My approach is relational, emotionally focused, and grounded in the belief that our sense of self is shaped within relationships—past and present. I help clients move away from reactive patterns and toward greater emotional awareness, self-trust, and intentional …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $250
- Insurance
- 4 reviews
"Our work is focused on helping you reconnect—not just manage conflict, but truly feel like a team again. We identify and shift the deeper relational patterns driving conflict, disconnection, and emotional distance. Rather than staying at the surface, …
Michelle Mattie Smith, LSW
Therapists, Licensed Social Worker
"I’m a bit of a jack of all trades, with a Master of Social Work and a deep passion for supporting children and teens. Over the years, I’ve had the opportunity to work with youth in a variety …
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"Tangled: A process group for women who feel alone in their marriage🕸️ This group is for you if: -Your marriage feels more like a standoff than a partnership.-You've had the same conversation a hundred times. Nothing moves.-Connection is lost …
Ilan Weinberg
Therapists, MFT Intern, Family & Teen Coach
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Kingston
- $175
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is warm, collaborative, and deeply relational. I believe meaningful change begins with feeling genuinely understood and seen, so I strive to create a space where you feel heard, respected, emotionally accompanied, and safe enough …
Eliot Yisroel Kaplan, PhD, LCSW
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Crown Heights
- $250 - $375
- 1 review
"My background and training are in Gestalt Therapy. The word “gestalt” reflects the idea that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts, and that philosophy has deeply shaped the way I approach therapy. Rather than …
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Understanding Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a type of therapy that focuses on helping couples and individuals understand and improve their emotional connections. EFT helps you and your partner better understand your feelings and needs, so you can build a stronger and more supportive relationship.
Application and Scope of EFT:
EFT is used to improve relationships and address issues like communication problems, conflicts, and distance between partners. It's really good for couples who want to feel closer and more connected to each other. EFT has been proven to be effective in helping couples improve their relationships and build more secure bonds.
What to Expect in EFT Sessions:
In EFT sessions, you and your partner work with a therapist to talk about your feelings, needs, and how you communicate. The therapist helps you both understand each other better and find new ways to express your emotions. EFT sessions provide a safe space for you to work through conflicts and learn how to support each other emotionally.