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Benson Fox, Life Coach

Therapist, Psy.D. & Certified Life Coach

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Benson Fox, Life Coach
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Benson Fox, Life Coach's style

🥇 Empowering 😃 Humorous 💪 Challenging 🐣 Out of the box

Why Benson Fox, Life Coach chose to be in the helping profession

I joined the helping profession because I want to pass on the tools and skills for healing that have been valuable in my own life. I worked hard to create a map of growth and healthiness for myself and want to share it with others. My goal is to be a source of support and light for others, especially during challenging, lonely times. Once we get through the hot moment together, I help them break through obstacles to their goals and take their lives to the next level. With the assistance of God, I aim to be the kind of person I needed when I was younger, offering encouragement, understanding, and hope. I focus on helping people uncover their authentic selves and realize their potential. With the assistance of God, I hope to continue being an effective giver rather than a taker.

Benson Fox, Life Coach's approach

My approach has a proven track record of results, as highlighted in the testimonials section. As a life and dating coach, I employ a highly individualized, holistic, and solution-focused method, incorporating a unique blend of out-of-the-box techniques. Throughout our sessions, I strike a balance between sensitivity, validation, and support, coupled with authenticity, truth-telling, and direct, constructive guidance.

I firmly reject the idea of a one-size-fits-all approach since every individual is unique and at a specific point in their personal journey. Therefore, I customize my sessions to your unique needs. While maintaining professionalism, I step into each coaching session as my authentic self, infusing it with my personality, humor, perspectives, and interests. By doing so, I hope to build lasting, genuine relationships, not hold you at a distance or hide behind my role as "the coach." Although it's bittersweet when our time together concludes, I communicate openly about the right time to end our sessions, which is when we have reached our goals.

My trust in intuition is unwavering, so even when it occasionally leads me or you astray, I tap into it for self-reflection and course correction. I assist my clients in cultivating self-trust and accessing their own intuition. My approach goes beyond helping clients release their pain; it involves embracing and leveraging it for positive transformation. I believe that every aspect of a person has a meaningful, positive place, even the parts that many repress or deny, such as anger, shame, and fear. Ultimately, my clients attain higher levels of confidence, joy, and self-love in their lives, along with a plethora of positive side effects like improved communication, self-awareness, and balance.

What you can expect from sessions with Benson Fox, Life Coach

In our sessions, my primary focus is facilitating you to reach YOUR goals, and the journey to get there may unfold in unexpected and surprising ways. Your role is simply to show up and express yourself however you would like, and trust that I will guide the conversation to wherever it needs to go. My approach is not rigidly structured with charts and itineraries; instead, it follows a natural flow, and I act as a channel, directing our discussions in ways that best serve your needs and objectives. I will challenge you to trailblaze beyond your comfort zone, but I am continuously evaluating your dynamic readiness and willingness for concrete and meaningful change. Also, I take pride in integrating spiritual and religious insights into my life coaching, always ensuring alignment with the values, goals, and beliefs of my clients. Let's break through all of the "stuckness" and obstacles to unleash and unlock the true you!

Benson Fox, Life Coach's experience working with the Jewish community

I have robust exposure to secular contexts, specifically 1000’s of hours of valuable, supervised counseling experience at the Brooklyn College Personal Counseling Center, James A. Dever Elementary School, Lynbrook High School, the Crisis Text Line and George W. Hewlett High School. These experiences have empowered me to connect and learn from individuals from various backgrounds and beliefs.

Primarily, my identity is shaped as an Orthodox Jew. My background is in yeshivas, growing up in an Orthodox Jewish home and integrated with the Five Towns Jewish community. Also, I hold a Bachelor's degree in Talmudic Law (BTL), invested four years in Torah study in Israel and currently in the process of achieving Semicha, an Orthodox Rabbinic Certification. My deep connection to my heritage and faith allows me to validate the idiosyncratic experiences in ways that outsiders would be challenged to and shapes my perspective of life and the coach-coachee dynamic. For example, I take pride in integrating spiritual and religious insights into my life coaching, always ensuring alignment with the values, goals, and beliefs of my clients.

My experience with the Jewish community includes working with Jewish crisis lines, contributing to Jewish organizations for individuals with special needs, and serving as a youth director for four years at the Beis Medrash of Harborview. This diverse background enriches my ability to connect with individuals within the Orthodox Jewish community and tailor my approach to their specific needs and cultural contexts. Also, these experiences lend me a profound understanding of more religiously-minded individuals.

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Languages spoken


People I work with

Children (6-12) Adolescents (13-18) Adults Individuals Couples Families Groups

Personal religious affiliations

Modern Yeshivish

Jewish community experience


7 years in practice


  • Bachelor of Arts by Touro University June 2019
  • Bachelor of Talmudic Law by Derech Ayson Rabbinic Seminary October 2017
  • Psy.D. by Adelphi University May 2024


  • Life Coach by Infiniti Coaching September 2018
  • Crisis Counselor by Crisis Text Line August 2017


  • Dignity for All Students Act (DASA) by Adelphi University 10/2021
  • Child Abuse Identification by Adelphi University 06/2021
  • School Violence Intervention And Prevention by Adelphi University 06/2021


  • Dating Coach (only male dating coach on site) by 2023 - present

Average costs per session

$100 - $150

Payment Methods

  • Sliding Scale
  • Free consultation
  • Cash
  • Check
  • Zelle Quick Pay
  • Venmo
  • PayPal
  • ACH Bank Transfer

What my clients have to say about working with me:

  • Bentzy is an incredible life coach. Extremely helpful, professional and understanding. Highly recommend him to anyone looking to take themselves to the next level or tackle challenging problems (mentally, professionally). I recommend without any reservation. Jan 30, 2020

  • Five star rating is actually pretty under-rating for Benson Fox coaching. He is a truly qualified life coach with all the skills , expertise, enthusiasm, and passion so that you can live a life you truly love and desire in all areas you have ever dreamt of. The world is quite lucky to have him and if you work with him you are even luckier so seize the opportunity. Great life coaches must possess the right blend of expertise and skilled delivery and this is why I highly recommend Benson Fox. He will impact your life and enable you to make transformations that you will be forever grateful for! Don't Wait! Jan 31, 2020

  • Coach Fox does an incredible job of helping people reach their goals with the right frame of mind! I was going through an extremely high-pressure situation and he was able to guide me and turn my stress into something much more manageable. Thank you Benson! Jan 16, 2020

  • Benson is someone that has helped me personally and who I recommend to others who are challenged in a number of areas. I do so because he got me the results I was looking for and I’m confident he can do so for others as well. I especially appreciate his communication, professionalism, and perception. Thank you Benson for what you did for me in my life and all of the lives of people you touch! Sept 11, 2019

  • I barely write reviews but I would like to share how satisfied I have been in having coach Fox as my life coach. It’s my first time speaking with a coach and I was truly not sure what to expect. I thought I figured out myself, my desires, my thought process especially at my age, but Benson unlocks new insights about myself that I never really considered. His approach is subtle and he keeps you accountable for what you need to work on. He checks in every day to make sure you’re on the right path. He has great availability and very affordable compared to a lot of other coaches on the market. I would definitely recommend him to anyone looking for some healing from breakups, deep self-reflection, and just quality life coaching. Mar 8, 2020

  • Coach Benson helped me through a very difficult situation in life. I had a ton of stress and he was able to help me make my day more manageable with everything I had going on in my life. I wouldn't have been able to make it through without him. Thank you! Feb 7, 2020

  • Bentzy is an incredible life coach. Extremely helpful, professional and understanding. Highly recommend him to anyone looking to take themselves to the next level or tackle challenging problems (mentally, professionally). I recommend without any reservation. Jan 30, 2020

  • Coach Benson was absolutely amazing helping me deal with the extremely challenging and stressful situation I was going through. He had the ability to break up my tough day into productive pieces and give me tools to overcome the challenges I was facing. I would certainly recommend Coach Benson to anyone looking for someone to help them get through a tough situation or complex matter. Thank you Coach Benson! Oct 6, 2019

  • Benson was a great resource for me. He was professional and challenged me to think about things differently... was definitely beneficial. Feb 7, 2020

  • I found Mr. Bentzy Fox to have many talents. He is totally focused and I found him to be an excellent communicator. Jan 30, 2020

  • Benson continually strives to build people and systems and practically translate client strengths into cutting-edge performance improvement. Benson enters coaching engagement as a learner, an observer, a catalyst for change, making no assumptions. He listens carefully, experiments, and co-creates success for his clients. Benson represents well his coaching certification from Infiniti Coaching. Feb 7, 2020

  • In a short two months, Benson helped me improve my balance in life, especially finding a better work-life balance. We were able to build better awareness around boundaries and self-care. I am still benefiting from the seeds he planted in these and other areas. If you are on the fence about joining Fox Coaching, remember that there is a cost to doing nothing and not getting to your goals

  • Benson helped me improve my self-love by helping me understand that all negative aspects of myself like conflict, have a positive place. In the 6.5 months we worked together, I accomplished the goals we had set out together and I am feeling much happier and better able to work through hard times and internally sort out my negative emotions. Benson really helped me in my life so maybe he can do the same in yours.

  • Benson invested so much into me and really helped me come from a hard, stuck place and get through lots of obstacles in the way of my goals and aspirations. I really felt like he genuinely cared about me and how I would turn out and it made all the difference for me. Now, I am married and on a solid career trajectory, and forever grateful for all Benson has done for me. June 2020


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