Sury Klein, LMSW

Many behaviors begin as solutions, until they no longer work. If you’re here, you may feel conflicted about therapy. We can start there.

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Sury Klein, LMSW's style

Why Sury Klein, LMSW chose to be in the helping profession

I chose this work because I’m deeply interested in people’s inner worlds and the meaning behind their coping. Many behaviors that bring people to therapy — including addiction, self-harm, and trauma-related sexual difficulties — once served an important purpose. They were ways of surviving experiences that felt overwhelming, unsafe, or impossible to face alone.

I’m drawn to work that meets these patterns with curiosity and compassion, reduces shame, and creates space for healing without judgment.

If you’re considering therapy and wondering whether this work might be a fit, you’re welcome to reach out for a brief consultation to talk things through.

Sury Klein, LMSW's approach

I work with adults impacted by trauma, sexual trauma, addiction, self-harm, and patterns of coping that no longer feel sustainable.

Many people come to therapy feeling ashamed of behaviors that once helped them survive — substance use, compulsive behaviors, emotional shutdown, or difficulties with intimacy and sexuality. These patterns are not failures; they are adaptations to experiences that felt overwhelming, unsafe, or impossible to face alone.

Rather than rushing to label or eliminate behaviors, we focus on understanding the why behind them. Together, we explore these patterns with curiosity and care, reduce shame, build awareness, and create space for healthier, more supportive ways of relating to yourself and others.

I believe healing happens in relationship — when someone feels truly seen, heard, and taken seriously. The work is not about forcing change, but about making sense of your experiences in a way that feels grounded and real.

I draw from approaches such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), attachment-based work, motivational interviewing, sand tray, and trauma-focused therapy.

You don’t need to be “ready” or have the right words.
We start where you are.

What you can expect from sessions with Sury Klein, LMSW

You can expect sessions that feel steady, thoughtful, and paced with care. We move at a speed that feels safe for you, with attention to both your emotional experience and your nervous system.

Our work is collaborative and non-judgmental. You won’t be pushed to share more than you’re ready for, and there is no pressure to “perform,” explain yourself perfectly, or make quick changes. Instead, we focus on understanding what your patterns are trying to communicate and what you need in order to feel more grounded and supported.

Over time, clients often experience reduced shame, increased clarity, and a stronger sense of connection to themselves and others. The goal is not to fix you, but to help you make sense of your experiences and build change that feels sustainable and real.

If you’re unsure where to begin, that’s okay.
We start where you are.

Sury Klein, LMSW's experience working with the Jewish community

I am an Orthodox Jewish therapist with experience working in and alongside the Jewish community, while deeply respecting and welcoming individuals from all religious and cultural backgrounds. I understand the unique complexities that can arise when trauma, addiction, sexual abuse, or intimacy concerns intersect with faith, modesty, and communal expectations.

These experiences are often layered, shaped by personal pain as well as the values and pressures of a close-knit community. I approach this work with sensitivity, awareness, and deep respect for how faith and identity can influence both suffering and healing.

My goal is to provide culturally sensitive, trauma-informed care where difficult topics can be explored without fear of judgment, dismissal, or having to choose between one’s faith and one’s healing. Together, we work thoughtfully and collaboratively to support growth, clarity, and integrity within the context of what matters most to each individual.

Sury Klein, LMSW's Book Recommendation Zone

• No Bad Parts
  A powerful introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering a non-shaming way to understand the different “parts” of ourselves. This book helps readers approach inner conflict, trauma, and coping strategies with curiosity and compassion.
• Good Inside
  A reassuring and validating read centered on the belief that people are inherently good. While written through a parenting lens, its core message about self-worth, repair, and emotional safety resonates deeply with adults doing their own healing work.
• Hold Me Tight
  A foundational book on emotionally focused relationships, helping individuals and couples understand attachment, emotional needs, and patterns of connection. Especially helpful for those wanting to strengthen intimacy and communication.

Approaches

• Art Therapy
• Attachment-based
• Internal Family Systems (IFS)
• Motivational Interviewing
• Sand Tray
• Sex Therapy
• Trauma Focused Therapy

Concerns

• Abuse/Violence
• Addiction
• Bereavement & Grief
• Crisis Intervention
• Dissociative disorders
• Drug/Substance Abuse
• Gender Identity Issues
• Life purpose and meaning
• Relationships
• Self-Harm/Suicidality
• Sexual health & dysfunction
• Stress management
• Trauma

1 years in practice

Licenses

• LMSW by New York. License number 130662
• MSW by New Jersey

Trainings

• Sand Tray by Lighthouse Counseling 2025

Average costs per session

$200

Payment Methods

• Cash
• Credit Card
• Zelle Quick Pay