Sury Klein, LMSW's style
💙 Warm 😃 Humorous 🧘 Calm 🤝 CollaborativeWhy Sury Klein, LMSW chose to be in the helping profession
You want closeness but find yourself pulling away. One minute you're craving connection; the next you're bracing for impact—waiting for the other shoe to drop even when things feel "fine." On the outside, you look like you have it together. Inside, you feel on edge or stuck in patterns you can’t change.
You often wonder if what you went through was "bad enough" to justify how you feel. Whether you’re numbing through substances or just feeling disconnected, I help you quiet the noise of a nervous system that doesn't know how to turn off. Let’s stop the cycle of pulling away. Click the email button to schedule a free consultation.
Sury Klein, LMSW's approach
I specialize in the intersection of trauma, addiction, and repeating relationship patterns. Many people reach out when they feel stuck but don’t fully understand what’s driving their reactions. Whether you are using substances to cope or just feeling on edge, I help you move beneath the surface to regulate your nervous system and finally break the cycle.
What you can expect from sessions with Sury Klein, LMSW
We slow things down to make sense of what’s underneath. We look at those moments where you want closeness but find yourself pulling away, shutting down, or feeling disconnected. My approach is to help you understand your triggers so that, over time, your relationships—and your world—begin to feel safer, more steady, and more connected. Reach out today.
Sury Klein, LMSW's experience working with the Jewish community
I am an Orthodox Jewish therapist with experience working in and alongside the Jewish community, while deeply respecting and welcoming individuals from all religious and cultural backgrounds. I understand the unique complexities that can arise when trauma, addiction, sexual abuse, or intimacy concerns intersect with faith, modesty, and communal expectations.
These experiences are often layered, shaped by personal pain as well as the values and pressures of a close-knit community. I approach this work with sensitivity, awareness, and deep respect for how faith and identity can influence both suffering and healing.
My goal is to provide culturally sensitive, trauma-informed care where difficult topics can be explored without fear of judgment, dismissal, or having to choose between one’s faith and one’s healing. Together, we work thoughtfully and collaboratively to support growth, clarity, and integrity within the context of what matters most to each individual.
Sury Klein, LMSW's Book Recommendation Zone
- No Bad Parts
A powerful introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS), offering a non-shaming way to understand the different “parts” of ourselves. This book helps readers approach inner conflict, trauma, and coping strategies with curiosity and compassion. - Good Inside
A reassuring and validating read centered on the belief that people are inherently good. While written through a parenting lens, its core message about self-worth, repair, and emotional safety resonates deeply with adults doing their own healing work. - Hold Me Tight
A foundational book on emotionally focused relationships, helping individuals and couples understand attachment, emotional needs, and patterns of connection. Especially helpful for those wanting to strengthen intimacy and communication.
Approaches
- Art Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Motivational Interviewing
- Sand Tray
- Sex Therapy
- Trauma Focused Therapy
Concerns
Languages spoken
English YiddishAges
AdultsPeople I work with
Individuals CouplesPersonal religious affiliations
OrthodoxJewish community experience
ExtensiveLicensed to work in
New Jersey, New YorkNearby areas within a short commute to my in person office
Jackson, Lakewood, Linden, Manchester, Toms River485 River Avenue, Lakewood, New Jersey
1 years in practice
Licenses
- LMSW by New York. License number 130662
- MSW by New Jersey
Trainings
- Sand Tray by Lighthouse Counseling 2025
Average costs per session
$200
Payment Methods
- Cash
- Credit Card
- Zelle Quick Pay
Content from Sury Klein, LMSW, Licensed Master of Social Work
Why do people overreact in relationships? A trauma-informed look at emotional triggers, nervous system responses, and relationship patterns.
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Overthinking isn’t weakness — it’s protection. A trauma-informed look at why you overthink everything and how therapy in New York can help your nervous system rest.
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Anxiety isn’t the enemy. A trauma-informed perspective on why anxiety develops and how therapy in New York can help you understand and regulate it safely.
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Self-harm is often a coping strategy, not attention-seeking. A trauma-informed look at self-injury, shame, and healing through therapy in New York.
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Repressed memories of sexual abuse can resurface unexpectedly. Learn why this happens and how trauma-informed sex therapy in New York supports healing safely.
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Addiction often begins as protection. A trauma-informed view of compulsive behaviors and how therapy in New York supports deeper healing.
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