David Lemmer

Do Your Purpose, On Purpose!

• Web

David Lemmer's style

Why David Lemmer chose to be in the helping profession

We are all capable of being the one who changes the world. All we truly need is belief.

Over time, I’ve come to see how we subconsciously program ourselves with limiting beliefs, and how often we reinforce them day after day without even noticing. It breaks my heart to watch so much time and potential go to waste in people who carry such incredible gifts within them, yet have been conditioned to see themselves as smaller than they truly are.

I believe we are born with a powerful will and a purpose our soul chose before we arrived here. But through life experiences, and the beliefs we absorb along the way, we slowly begin to confine ourselves within those very boundaries. We repeat these beliefs internally, and then make daily choices that reinforce a limited version of who we think we are, even when something deeper within us knows there is more.

What I’ve realized is that this same process can be reversed. The very mechanism that builds limiting beliefs can be used to create empowering ones instead. When you begin to upgrade your beliefs and truly respect the person you are becoming, your choices naturally begin to reflect that future self. Over time, through consistent action and awareness, you gradually step into who you were always meant to be.

I help you identify the limiting stories you tell yourself so you can shift course and step into a more powerful life. This work is about recognizing the repeating patterns in your life and understanding that resistance is not a blockage, but an invitation to grow. Belief is what opens every door, yet fear often shapes the decisions we make before we even realize it. That is why it becomes so important to examine and understand your belief system, so you can finally choose from a place of alignment rather than limitation.

David Lemmer's approach

Hypnotherapy.

Between the moment something happens in reality and your reaction to it lies an entire world of “meta-data” — memories, experiences, thoughts, and knowledge. All of this information becomes the hidden foundation behind the choices and reactions we make every day, often without realizing it.

With your sincere will to create a better life, whether that means releasing fears, anxiety, addiction, or depression, or building new goals and visions, I guide you gently through your inner world. We listen closely to the quiet voice that has been calling out for years. That voice may not have been clearly heard until now, but the feelings it carries have always been present and shaping your experience.

Together, we tune into what you truly want and where your soul feels most at peace. From there, we work step by step to find even the smallest actions that move you in that direction. Resistance will naturally arise, doubts and past experiences will speak up, but we walk through those inner landscapes together, facing those voices until they begin to loosen their grip and make room for something more true.

Everything you learn comes through the conversation you have with yourself. My role is to help you stay focused, highlight the patterns you might be missing, and guide you toward new conclusions you arrive at on your own. These insights then begin to embed themselves naturally into your daily life, supporting you in the moments where old patterns would have once taken over.

In the end, all we really have in this world is time. It would mean a great deal to me if even one session could be enough to help you gain momentum and step more fully onto your true path.

What you can expect from sessions with David Lemmer

You will change your perspective on life. While simple habit changes are valuable, it is the deeper shift in mindset and perspective that creates lasting transformation. You begin to observe your life as if you were your own therapist, and in doing so you start to discover the true power of choice.

This new mindset gives you the clarity to recognize old patterns and gently question the things you have taken for granted for many years. You may begin this process to overcome something specific, like the fear of flying, but over time you might notice yourself trying foods you once dismissed as “not your taste,” or responding differently in situations that used to feel automatic. You start to see every choice as its own moment, one that either brings more ease and calm to your heart or takes you away from it. When something feels even slightly off, you learn to pause, notice the feeling, observe the thoughts running through your mind, and consciously decide what comes next. It becomes the ability to slow time internally, creating enough space to choose more wisely.

You will learn how to truly think in your daily life, in your prayers, in your learning, and in the quiet in-between moments. By not taking things at face value, every word, experience, and interaction opens into something deeper, full of meaning and opportunity. Since what we are ultimately seeking is a sense of true peace, you begin to notice it in what was always there: the chirping of birds, the quiet wisdom of trees, and the subtle beauty of ordinary life that had gone unnoticed.

When you create real change in one area of your life, the rest naturally begins to follow. It’s a bit like changing the doormat in a house, suddenly the door feels brighter, the entryway feels fresher, and that shift quietly spreads through the rest of the space.

David Lemmer's experience working with the Jewish community

I have had the privilege of working with many Jewish clients and have consistently witnessed a deep capacity for hope and resilience, even in some of the most challenging circumstances. There is often a strong sense of meaning-making and inner strength that comes through in their stories, no matter what they are facing. I find it profoundly moving to sit with people as they reconnect to that sense of possibility within themselves.

Our faith and tradition can be a powerful support for mental and emotional growth. Because the mind naturally works through association, always linking present experiences to something familiar, the therapeutic process becomes especially rich and layered. Jewish life is filled with story, metaphor, and history, from the lives of Joseph, David, and many others, and these narratives often become meaningful reference points in the work we do together. When personal experiences are viewed through that lens of story and meaning, they can open up new ways of understanding and healing.

For many people, faith in God can also become a grounding force in this process. The ability to trust in something greater than oneself can support the release of control and create more space for presence, even in the midst of struggle. This sense of surrender is not about giving up, but about softening the internal tension that often keeps us stuck, so that change can happen with more ease and clarity.

Jewish prayer and Tehillim are also deeply expressive texts, filled with language around love, gratitude, peace, acceptance, and longing. These words are not only recited, they are experienced, and they can awaken real emotional states within us. When we work with those emotions consciously, there is an opportunity to bring them into alignment in a healthier way, and to relate to them with more awareness and intention.

At its core, this work is about integration, of thoughts, emotions, and lived experience. When different parts of the self are acknowledged and brought into harmony, there is often a natural sense of relief and wholeness that follows. In that way, healing becomes less about becoming someone new, and more about returning to a more connected and coherent version of who you already are.

David Lemmer's Book Recommendation Zone

• Man’s Search for Meaning
  The power of belief that guides us.
• Many Lives, Many Masters
  The Power of Hypnotherapy and Past Life Regression.
• Who Am I
  A walk through the internal world of a Jewish man’s mind through Internal Family Systems and Hypnosis.
• The Life of Adam
  A deep level of conscious recognition of the internal belief system through Internal Family Systems and Hypnosis.
• The Mashal, Neshama’s Journal
  The search for home.

Approaches

• Belief Code
• Hypnotherapy
• Internal Family Systems (IFS)
• Logotherapy
• Narrative Therapy

Concerns

• Addiction
• Anxiety
• Body image
• Depression
• Emotion regulation
• Life purpose and meaning
• Religious Identity Issues

4 years in practice

Certificates

• Certified Hypnotherapist by NGH 2022
• Certified Hypnotherapist by IACT 2023

Average costs per session

$325 - $975

Payment Methods

• Cash
• Check
• Credit Card
• Zelle Quick Pay