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Professionals Who Specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175 Per Session
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Moses Appel, PhD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.
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Brooklyn
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Rachel Brezel, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Brooklyn
- $450 Per Session
- 3 reviews
"I strive to create a therapeutic space that is both welcoming and authentic, where my clients can feel seen, heard, and understood. At the same time, I recognize that therapy is not meant to be an open-ended process, …
Simi Schwartz, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Long Island
- $150 - $200 Per Session
- Insurance
"While I am trained in a variety of evidence-based practices such as CBT, IFS, ACT, and DBT, my approach to therapy is deeply rooted in being client-centered and collaborative. I firmly believe that therapy is not a one-size-fits-all …
Shira Renzoni, MSW
Therapists, Master Social Work
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Jerusalem
- $150 - $175 Per Session
"My approach to therapy is grounded in building a strong, authentic connection with each client. I aim to create a safe, welcoming space where they feel comfortable sharing whatever is on their mind or in their heart. I …
Alison Printz, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"My approach to therapy is warm, empathetic, and grounded in honesty. I strive to create a space where my clients feel genuinely supported while also feeling gently challenged to move toward the changes they want to make in …
Shua Stimmel
Certified Coach
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Toms River
- $200 - $400 Per Session
- 1 review
"My approach to coaching is rooted in self awareness. I believe that many of our common struggles come from not fully understanding what drives our behaviors, emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and values. When we begin to see these patterns …
Toby Diamond, LMHC-D, CASAC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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Brooklyn
- $100 - $300 Per Session
- Insurance
"At the core of my therapeutic philosophy is a commitment to being a trauma-informed practitioner. I conscientiously consider any adverse or traumatic experiences individuals may have faced, aiming to create a secure environment for the courageous work ahead. …
Orly Bentata Goldenberg, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
"In my journey as a therapist and founder of Smart Therapy PC, my driving force is a commitment to understanding and assisting individuals grappling with various facets of relationships, encompassing the one they share with themselves. I firmly …
Talia Gutlove, LCSW, CST, C-PST
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Five Towns
- $225 - $250 Per Session
"In my practice, I strive to establish a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive environment where my clients can freely explore their emotions and embark on a journey toward positive change. I believe that each person is unique and no …
Michali Friedman, LCSW
Therapists, LCSW-C, Marriage & Sex Therapist
"Collaboration is the cornerstone of my therapy approach. I believe in working together with my clients to identify goals, increase awareness of patterns that impact these goals, and develop the necessary skills for achieving them. Thankfully, I have …
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Understanding Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT):
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a therapeutic approach designed to empower individuals in managing and overcoming a variety of emotional and behavioral challenges by addressing the interplay between thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT is grounded in the belief that changing negative thought patterns can lead to positive changes in emotions and behaviors.
Application and Scope of CBT:
CBT is widely employed to address issues such as anxiety, depression, and various mood disorders. It proves particularly effective for individuals seeking practical strategies to navigate daily stressors and overcome obstacles. Whether you're grappling with persistent negative thought patterns or seeking coping mechanisms for life's challenges, CBT provides a structured and evidence-based framework for fostering lasting change.
What to Expect in CBT Sessions:
In CBT sessions, you collaborate with a therapist to explore and understand the connection between your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Together, you identify and challenge negative thought patterns, replacing them with more constructive and positive alternatives. CBT sessions are collaborative, goal-oriented, and often involve practical exercises and homework assignments to reinforce new coping strategies. As you progress, you'll gain valuable skills to manage challenges more effectively, ultimately promoting a more positive and resilient mindset.