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Professionals Who Specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175 Per Session
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Doron Lazarus, CISC
Certified Integrative Sleep Coach
"My approach to sleep coaching is holistic, integrative, and deeply personalized. I don’t just look at the sleep issue in isolation—I work with the whole person. That means exploring the physical, emotional, behavioral, and even spiritual factors that …
Rachel Brezel, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Brooklyn
- $450 Per Session
- 3 reviews
"I strive to create a therapeutic space that is both welcoming and authentic, where my clients can feel seen, heard, and understood. At the same time, I recognize that therapy is not meant to be an open-ended process, …
Moses Appel, PhD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.
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Brooklyn
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …
Rena Blatt, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I’m dedicated to helping clients achieve their goals and feel more grounded in their daily lives. I work with both individuals and families, supporting people who are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, substance use, self-harm, and life transitions. …
Shoshana Ort, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I believe therapy should feel like a safe, supportive space where you don’t have to carry life’s challenges alone. My approach is rooted in compassion, curiosity, and collaboration—I don’t see myself as the expert on your life, but …
Collaborative Minds Psychotherapy LLC
Licensed Clinical Social Workers
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Teaneck
- 1 review
"At Collaborative Minds Psychotherapy, our approach to therapy is relational, thoughtful, and deeply human. We believe that true healing happens within safe, attuned relationships, not through fixing, forcing, or pathologizing. Our clinicians focus on creating spaces where clients …
Elana Schwartz, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- $200 Per Session
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is personable, straightforward, and above all, relational. I firmly believe that the therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone of effective therapy. Building trust and connection with my clients is essential, as it creates a safe …
Fraidy Shagalov, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Aventura
- $200 Per Session
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is rooted in a calm and relaxed demeanor, creating a space where clients feel genuinely at ease sharing their experiences. I strive to maintain a balance between being casual and professional, which helps foster …
Dr. Yosef Tropper, PsyD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, LCPC, LMHC, LPC
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Manchester
- 1 review
"In my therapeutic approach, I try to combine: -warmth and empathy -direct and goal-oriented focus -IFS and other trauma interventions to help you unburden. My commitment is to genuinely comprehend your unique identity, acknowledge your past experiences, and …
Lauren Hofstatter, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Boca Raton
- $300 - $350 Per Session
"I take a solution-focused, goal-oriented approach to therapy and coaching, which means I prioritize helping my clients move forward in practical, meaningful ways. While exploring emotions and past experiences has its place, I believe progress comes when we …
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Understanding Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT):
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a therapeutic approach designed to empower individuals in managing and overcoming a variety of emotional and behavioral challenges by addressing the interplay between thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT is grounded in the belief that changing negative thought patterns can lead to positive changes in emotions and behaviors.
Application and Scope of CBT:
CBT is widely employed to address issues such as anxiety, depression, and various mood disorders. It proves particularly effective for individuals seeking practical strategies to navigate daily stressors and overcome obstacles. Whether you're grappling with persistent negative thought patterns or seeking coping mechanisms for life's challenges, CBT provides a structured and evidence-based framework for fostering lasting change.
What to Expect in CBT Sessions:
In CBT sessions, you collaborate with a therapist to explore and understand the connection between your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Together, you identify and challenge negative thought patterns, replacing them with more constructive and positive alternatives. CBT sessions are collaborative, goal-oriented, and often involve practical exercises and homework assignments to reinforce new coping strategies. As you progress, you'll gain valuable skills to manage challenges more effectively, ultimately promoting a more positive and resilient mindset.