Understanding Dating in the Jewish Community

Hello and welcome to our dedicated space for discussing and addressing dating within the Jewish community. Our site features a diverse range of professionals, therapists, and content focused on navigating and understanding dating in the Jewish community.

Unique Considerations in Jewish Dating

When individuals within the Jewish community engage in dating, which is often shaped by distinct cultural and religious factors, it represents a specific category of considerations faced by this group. Family involvement, religious compatibility, cultural expectations, and community norms are all examples of factors that can influence Jewish dating. Often, balancing personal preferences with cultural and religious expectations can be challenging. It can impact individuals' emotional well-being, relationship satisfaction, and connection to their Jewish identity.

Watch the videos below to gain insights from Jewish professionals, therapists, and relationship experts. These resources offer extensive knowledge on navigating dating within the Jewish community, providing expert guidance and culturally sensitive advice.

Turning Tiffs into Triumphs

Small arguments aren’t the problem, missed repair is. Learn how curiosity, humor, and vulnerability can turn conflicts into deeper connection and intimacy.

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Understanding People-Pleasing as a Trauma Wound

People-pleasing is a behavior that many individuals exhibit, often to the detriment of their own well-being. At its core, people-pleasing involves prioritizing others’ needs and feelings over one’s own, often…

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The Influence of Ancestry on Partner Selection: Healing Unhealthy Patterns

When we think about our choice of partners, it’s easy to focus solely on personal preferences and individual experiences. However, a deeper layer of our partner selection may be rooted…

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Why Empaths with an Anxious Attachment Style Are Vulnerable to Toxic Relationships

In the complex world of relationships, understanding attachment styles can provide insight into why some individuals find themselves in toxic situations. Among these, empaths – those who are highly attuned…

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Seven Principles for making Marriage Work: Based on the works of J. Gottman (The Gottman Institute, 2024)

Seven Principles for making Marriage Work: Based on the works of J. Gottman (The Gottman Institute, 2024) by Bina Stefansky, LMSW, Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW

Marriage and relationship counseling, fundemental practical tips and tools, Dr. John and Julie Gottman, Seven Principles for Making Marriage work, love lab

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Fighting Fairly: A Journey Toward Connection

Discover how fair fighting deepens relationships by fostering respect, understanding, and growth. Explore the transformative power of conflict and connection.

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How Speaking Up Can Transform Your Relationships

Healthy relationship communication, boundary-setting therapy, overcoming conflict fears, reducing relationship stress, and fostering balance through self-advocacy.

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What to Do When You Feel Like You’re Still Sitting at the Proverbial Kids’ Table of Life: Making—and Owning—Your Decisions

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Professionals Who Specialize in Dating

Rachel Brezel

Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC

  • In-office Brooklyn, New York

My area of expertise lies in treating anxiety, depression, OCD (including the most severe cases), emotional regulation, and relationship challenges.


" I strive to create a therapeutic space that is both welcoming and authentic, where my clients can feel seen, heard, and understood. At the same time, I recognize that therapy is not meant to be an open-ended process, …

  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented

Moses Appel, PhD

Therapist, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.

  • In-office Brooklyn, New York

Moses Appel, PhD, draws from CBT, ACT, and DBT to support individuals in their journey toward improved mental health and overall well-being.


" At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …

  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💙 Warm
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Miriam Mackay, LCSW

Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

  • In-office Howell, New Jersey

Miriam Mackay, LCSW, uses IFS, somatic therapy & TF-CBT to treat trauma, anxiety & more, to support healing through a collaborative approach.


" My approach is grounded in being deeply client-centered. I believe that each person brings a unique inner wisdom to the healing process, and I aim to create a space where clients feel safe, seen, and empowered to move …

  • 😃 Humorous
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 💭 Open minded
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Bassy (Batya) Schwartz, LMFT

Therapist, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

  • In-office Cedarhurst, New York

Batya Schwartz, LMFT, creates an atmosphere that balances professionalism with a personal touch, creating a comfortable and genuine connection between us.


" My therapeutic approach is rooted in several key principles: 1. Genuine Connection: We have a unique opportunity here, in the therapeutic space, to share and connect authentically, which is often scary or impossible in the "real world". You …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 😃 Humorous
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Danielle Taylor, LMHC

Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC

  • Remote only

Danielle Taylor, LMHC, incorporates CBT, ACT, and psychodynamic therapy. For couples, she specializes in the Gottman Method & more to fortify relationship dynamics.


" I prioritize a holistic perspective on wellness, recognizing that true well-being encompasses a delicate balance of physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational dimensions. I understand that each individual's journey toward wellness is unique, and I tailor my approach to …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Anna Sherman, MFT

Therapist, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, RP, MA

  • In-office Toronto, Canada

Anna Sherman, MFT helps clients to overcome trauma, work through fears and emotional blocks in their lives, and empower them to help them help themselves.


" I guide clients on their journey of healing and overcoming trauma, while also helping them navigate fears and emotional blocks within their lives and relationships. My goal is to empower clients to become their own advocates, providing them …

  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💙 Warm
  • 😃 Humorous
  • 👂 Listener

Menachem Bernfeld, Ms.Ed. CLC

Ms.Ed. CLC

  • In-office Lakewood, New Jersey

Menachem Bernfeld Ms.Ed. utilizes mindfulness & meditation, emotional regulation, & neuro-linguistic programming as tools to help clients achieve balance & success.


" I utilize mindfulness and meditation, emotional regulation, and neuro-linguistic programming as my primary techniques to help individuals achieve balance and success in their lives. Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a field of study that explores the relationship between language, …

  • 🔥 Energetic
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 💙 Warm
  • 🧘 Calm

Sara Freed

Certified Marriage & Relationship Coach

  • In-office Spring Valley, New York

Sara Freed, Coach, supports individuals navigating relationship challenges using Imago Therapy, the Gottman Method, and practical, values-based coaching tools.


" Clients often tell me, “You’re so easy to talk to.” That’s because I don’t just listen—I truly get people. I hear what you're saying, even when it's hard to put into words, and I pick up on the …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 👂 Listener
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🌎 Holistic

Esther (Ellen) Gendelman

Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC

  • Remote only

I employ a positive, nurturing approach focused on identifying and building strengths that work more successfully than focusing only on the areas of weakness.


" I believe that close connections are the essence of a fulfilling life. Without meaningful relationships, life can feel dark and lonely. In my practice, I've found that a positive, nurturing approach centered on identifying and building strengths, drawing …

Rachy Friedlander, Somatic Coach

Emotions Master Coach/TEB Practitioner

  • In-office Lakewood, New Jersey

Rachy Friedlander is a somatic coach who employs psychodrama, IFS, Transforming Touch, meditation, Breathwork, yoga, and more in her profound work with clients.


" My coaching approach is deeply influenced by my exploration of emotional healing through the spiritual lenses of Kabbalah and Chassidus. Each session is approached intuitively, drawing from a diverse toolbox that includes modalities such as psychodrama, IFS (Internal …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 👂 Listener
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🧘 Calm

Aryeh Kugel, MHC-LP

Therapist, Mental Health Counselor Limited Permit: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY

  • In-office Brooklyn, New York

Aryeh Kugel, LMHC, helps teens, young adults, & families navigate family dynamics, ADHD, anxiety, life changes, & more, through compassionate & holistic care.


" I approach therapy with an easy-going, nonjudgmental presence. I know that coming to therapy takes real courage, and it can feel uncomfortable at first, so I strive to make the process as pleasant and approachable as possible. My …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 😃 Humorous
  • 👂 Listener
  • 💡 Solution-oriented

Rivky Dasheff, LD CRC

LD CRC

  • Remote only

Rivky Dasheff, LD CRC helps clients create a vision for their life and relationships, guiding them toward happiness and fulfillment.


" What intrigued me the most, contrary to popular belief, was that working on a relationship isn't about directly fixing it. Instead, I discovered that true progress lies in working on myself, which naturally leads to positive changes in …

  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 💙 Warm
  • 👂 Listener
  • 💡 Solution-oriented

Understanding and Addressing Dating within the Jewish Community

Dating is a complex topic across various communities, including unique considerations within the Jewish community. While the broader societal understanding of dating exists, the intricacies of cultural norms, religious practices, and community dynamics within the Jewish community add layers of complexity. Dating within the Jewish community can affect individuals regardless of age, gender, or background, highlighting the need for awareness and targeted support.

Strategies for Navigating Dating in the Jewish Community

Effective approaches to dating for Jewish individuals necessitate strategies that are culturally and religiously attuned. This encompasses open communication about personal and familial expectations, respect for religious beliefs and cultural practices, and seeking support from community resources and trusted mentors when needed. Tailored advice and guidance are developed to address the specific facets of dating within the Jewish community. It's important to find a balance between personal autonomy and cultural connection, ensuring a path towards fulfilling and meaningful relationships. It's valuable to note that our professionals are experts in their fields, bringing both specialized knowledge and a deep understanding of cultural nuances to their work

Our directory features professionals, including Therapists & Coaches, who offer culturally sensitive support for those navigating Dating within the Jewish community.

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