Recently, I spoke with a woman who complained that her husband has become “passive” and “directionless.” When I asked how she responds when he does take the lead or when…

Recently, I had a guy complain to me that his new wife gets emotional about everything. I asked him, “And who says that’s a problem? What if rational isn’t the…

According to Kabbalah, in a relationship, the role of the male is to be a "mashpia" — a giver.But "Giver" doesn't mean to simply show up with roses, chocolate or…

  I want to share four things that is undermining couplehood and getting in the way of singles building lasting healthy meaningful relationships. If you’ve been searching for love without…

The word *vulnerability* is often misunderstood. By definition, it means “capable of being wounded” or “open to attack.” No wonder so many associate it with weakness.But in reality, vulnerability is…

Many people unwittingly undermine the emotional intimacy in their relationship because they are attached to a result, such as approval or agreement, and feel as if they can’t live without…

A man who doesn’t have mastery over himself — his thoughts, his emotions, his body, his purpose — is seen as infantile and not trustworthy to a woman.And that means she *definitely*…

He’s coming home late. And sometimes not at all.Maybe he “needs space”. Or maybe it’s gotten to the point where he’s half-moved-out.He finally comes back — what’s your next move?Ground…

One of the most powerful things you as a man can do in a relationship is to ‘Be your brand’. That means living out your values and embodying your mission…

Everyone says they want “authentic communication” in their relationship.But do we actually know what that means?True communication isn’t just about honesty. It’s about presence.It’s about stepping into a conversation with…

I. Disclaimer: The easy knee-jerk reactionary answer to “Why doesn’t he help?” is simple: He’s a deadbeat; a lazy, selfish jerk. If you are, in fact, correct about that assertion, then…