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Professionals Who Specialize in Inner child work
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225 Per Session
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapist, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Cedarhurst
- $150 - $300 Per Session
- Insurance
- 3 reviews
"My therapeutic approach is rooted in several key principles: 1. Genuine Connection: We have a unique opportunity here, in the therapeutic space, to share and connect authentically, which is often scary or impossible in the "real world". You …
Anna Sherman, MFT
Therapist, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, RP, MA
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Toronto
- $170 - $190 Per Session
"I guide clients on their journey of healing and overcoming trauma, while also helping them navigate fears and emotional blocks within their lives and relationships. My goal is to empower clients to become their own advocates, providing them …
Toby Diamond, LMHC-D, CASAC
Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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Brooklyn
- $100 - $300 Per Session
- Insurance
"At the core of my therapeutic philosophy is a commitment to being a trauma-informed practitioner. I conscientiously consider any adverse or traumatic experiences individuals may have faced, aiming to create a secure environment for the courageous work ahead. …
Sheri Bardos, Psy.D.
Therapist, Doctor of Psychology
"Traditional psychology often focuses on human pathology, diagnosing people into limiting boxes. My passion, however, lies in human potential—helping you uncover and embrace your most authentic self. Coaches typically emphasize shaping your ideal future self, paying less attention …
Chanchy Tenenbaum
Life Alignment Coach & Certified Hypnotist
"I use a combination of powerful holistic coaching methods and embodied life experiences to support you through your journey. My approach weaves together Forming, Inner Freedom Technique, REframing, Parts Work, Inner Child Work, and Chassidic Philosophy, all held …
Jackie Glaser
Psychologist
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Los Angeles
- $99 - $500 Per Session
- 5 reviews
"My approach to coaching is intensive, short-term, results-focused, and directive—the opposite of traditional therapy. While I work with a variety of clients, I specialize in coaching singles, particularly around dating. The reason I can work with anyone is …
Tamara Fass, LMSW
Therapist, Licensed Master Social Worker
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Long Beach
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- Insurance
"As I delved deeper into the world of trauma therapy, I found myself captivated by the groundbreaking PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) model. Its unique principles and methodologies stood out to me, offering a fresh perspective on …
Rachel Toiv, LMHC
Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
"In the therapeutic space, I adopt a confidential, supportive, and validating approach, meeting my clients exactly where they are, armed with a blank slate. My understanding is solely based on what you choose to share, and my connection …
Tzvi Noble, LMFT
Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
"My approach is centered on understanding the whole person – not just the symptoms or behaviors, but the deeper story beneath them. I help clients explore what internal and external factors may have made them especially vulnerable to …
Aaron Silverman, LMSW
Therapist, Licensed Master Social Worker
"I work with couples, families, adults, and teens who struggle with being themselves in the world, especially around transitions, beginnings, and endings. These can be times when old patterns get stirred up and it feels hard to stay …
Taibke Hyman, LPC
Therapist, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Pittsburgh
- $150 - $170 Per Session
- Insurance
"In my practice, I take a holistic approach to therapy, utilizing a combination of various modalities such as Motivational Interviewing, EMDR, Parts work, Somatic based therapy, and others, tailored to the individual needs of each client. My approach …
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Understanding Inner Child Work:
Inner child work is a therapeutic approach that involves exploring and healing the emotional wounds and unresolved experiences from one's childhood. This process acknowledges the presence of an inner child within each of us—a part of our psyche that holds past memories, emotions, and beliefs. Inner child work aims to nurture and heal this inner child, fostering emotional healing and personal growth.
Application and Scope of Inner Child Work:
Inner child work is applied to address a wide range of emotional concerns, including low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, trauma, and emotional triggers. It's particularly effective for individuals seeking to understand and heal the impact of their past experiences on their present emotions and behaviors. Inner child work is relevant for people of all ages and backgrounds.
What to Expect in Inner Child Work Sessions:
In inner child work sessions, you'll work with a trained therapist who will guide you through a process of self-exploration and healing. You'll explore past memories, emotions, and beliefs that may be affecting your current life. Through various therapeutic techniques, you'll learn to connect with your inner child, provide emotional support, and release emotional wounds.