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Professionals Who Specialize in Premarital Counseling
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225 Per Session
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Moses Appel, PhD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.
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Brooklyn
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …
Rabbi Raffi Bilek, LCSW, Relationship Coach
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Relationship Coach
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Baltimore
- $200 Per Session
"You are looking for a better marriage, closer family relationships, a full a meaningful life. I am looking to help you get there. I see my job as making myself obsolete as quickly as possible. I want you …
Lauren Hofstatter, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Boca Raton
- $300 - $350 Per Session
"I take a solution-focused, goal-oriented approach to therapy and coaching, which means I prioritize helping my clients move forward in practical, meaningful ways. While exploring emotions and past experiences has its place, I believe progress comes when we …
Sarah Greenberg, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Monsey
- $225 - $350 Per Session
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is relational, attachment-focused, and insight-oriented. I work with clients to explore how early attachment experiences, formative relationships, and past relational wounds continue to shape emotional patterns, internal narratives, and the ways we relate to …
Shaindy Litchfield, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Borough Park
- $200 - $250 Per Session
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is grounded in empathy and collaboration, guided by the belief that lasting change happens when you feel fully supported and actively involved in your own healing journey. I view therapy as a partnership—one where …
Michal Goldman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Kew Gardens Hills
- $250 Per Session
- 3 reviews
"My approach to therapy is primarily experiential, which means I focus on helping you actively experience new, more secure ways of relating to yourself and to each other in the room, rather than only talking about what you …
Dovid Silver, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Flushing
- $200 Per Session
- Insurance
"In my therapeutic approach, I aim to connect with clients on their terms. I create an environment where they can truly feel heard and secure, enabling them to delve into aspects of themselves that might have previously seemed …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Cedarhurst
- $150 - $300 Per Session
- Insurance
- 3 reviews
"My therapeutic approach is rooted in several key principles: 1. Genuine Connection: We have a unique opportunity here, in the therapeutic space, to share and connect authentically, which is often scary or impossible in the "real world". You …
Sara Freed, Coach
Certified Marriage & Relationship Coach
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Spring Valley
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"Clients often tell me, “You’re so easy to talk to.” That’s because I don’t just listen—I truly get people. I hear what you're saying, even when it's hard to put into words, and I pick up on the …
Lee Grant, Psychotherapist
Therapists, Psychotherapist
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Welwyn
- £85 - £145 Per Session
- 5 reviews
"I opened my practice, Rollswood Therapy, as a space to blend the depth of psychology with practical tools for everyday life. My approach draws on both the systemic insights of science and the symbolic expressions of the arts. …
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Understanding Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is a form of couples therapy that helps individuals preparing for marriage navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with a committed partnership. It provides a safe and supportive environment for couples to explore their expectations, communication styles, and shared values, as well as to build a strong foundation for a healthy and lasting marriage.
Application and Scope of Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is primarily applied to couples who are engaged or planning to get married. It's particularly effective for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, address potential areas of conflict, and develop the skills needed for a successful and fulfilling marriage. Premarital Counseling is relevant for couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What to Expect in Premarital Counseling Sessions:
In Premarital Counseling sessions, couples work with a trained therapist who guides them through discussions and exercises focused on various aspects of their relationship. These may include topics like communication, conflict resolution, financial management, and future goals. The aim is to foster open and effective communication, increase understanding, and build a strong foundation for a healthy marriage.