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Professionals Who Specialize in Premarital Counseling
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225 Per Session
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Moses Appel, PhD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.
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Brooklyn
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Michal Goldman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Kew Gardens Hills
- $250 Per Session
- 3 reviews
"My approach to therapy is primarily experiential, which means I focus on helping you actively experience new, more secure ways of relating to yourself and to each other in the room, rather than only talking about what you …
Barry Granek, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
"My approach to therapy is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves a warm, supportive, and non-judgmental space where they can freely explore their thoughts and emotions, especially during pivotal life transitions. I specialize in gender-sensitive therapy, with …
Talia Gutlove, LCSW, CST, C-PST
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Five Towns
- $225 - $250 Per Session
"In my practice, I strive to establish a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive environment where my clients can freely explore their emotions and embark on a journey toward positive change. I believe that each person is unique and no …
Dina Cohen, MA, CSAT
Therapists, Certified Sex(Porn)Addiction Therapist
"In my approach to counseling, I place a profound emphasis on the transformative power of the therapeutic relationship. Regardless of the specific modalities employed, I recognize that the core of healing is often rooted in the quality of …
Ariella Lindenfeld, LCAT
Therapists, Licensed Creative Arts Therapist
"My approach is rooted in listening deeply and creating a space where you feel safe to bring your full self into the room. I see therapy as a collaborative process, where we work together to uncover patterns, explore …
Rabbi Raffi Bilek, LCSW, Relationship Coach
Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Relationship Coach
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Baltimore
- $200 Per Session
"You are looking for a better marriage, closer family relationships, a full a meaningful life. I am looking to help you get there. I see my job as making myself obsolete as quickly as possible. I want you …
Rachel Steinhardt, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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Boca Raton
- $250 - $300 Per Session
- 1 review
"I truly believe in a not one size fits all approach to therapy. I believe each person has a unique experience with individualized needs and I do my best to customize my care and tailor it to the …
Shaindy Litchfield, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Borough Park
- $200 - $250 Per Session
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is grounded in empathy and collaboration, guided by the belief that lasting change happens when you feel fully supported and actively involved in your own healing journey. I view therapy as a partnership—one where …
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Understanding Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is a form of couples therapy that helps individuals preparing for marriage navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with a committed partnership. It provides a safe and supportive environment for couples to explore their expectations, communication styles, and shared values, as well as to build a strong foundation for a healthy and lasting marriage.
Application and Scope of Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is primarily applied to couples who are engaged or planning to get married. It's particularly effective for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, address potential areas of conflict, and develop the skills needed for a successful and fulfilling marriage. Premarital Counseling is relevant for couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What to Expect in Premarital Counseling Sessions:
In Premarital Counseling sessions, couples work with a trained therapist who guides them through discussions and exercises focused on various aspects of their relationship. These may include topics like communication, conflict resolution, financial management, and future goals. The aim is to foster open and effective communication, increase understanding, and build a strong foundation for a healthy marriage.