Most marriages that result in separation don’t just fall apart all of a sudden.  They slowly go numb. There are couples that come to me when the house is functioning, the kids are…

Many couples reach a point where the spark hasn't just flickered -- it feels extinguished. They describe it as living with a "roommate" or, worse, a "competitor." The conversations are…

Let’s get one thing clear: every human being is inherently high value. Your essential worth isn’t something to be earned — it’s woven into the fabric of your existence.But what…

We all want that feeling of being 'one' with our spouse. We want to be finishing each other's sentences and seeing the world through the same eyes. It’s the dream…

Recently, I spoke with a woman who complained that her husband has become “passive” and “directionless.” When I asked how she responds when he does take the lead or when…

Recently, I had a guy complain to me that his new wife gets emotional about everything. I asked him, “And who says that’s a problem? What if rational isn’t the…

According to Kabbalah, in a relationship, the role of the male is to be a "mashpia" — a giver.But "Giver" doesn't mean to simply show up with roses, chocolate or…

  I want to share four things that is undermining couplehood and getting in the way of singles building lasting healthy meaningful relationships. If you’ve been searching for love without…

The word *vulnerability* is often misunderstood. By definition, it means “capable of being wounded” or “open to attack.” No wonder so many associate it with weakness.But in reality, vulnerability is…

Many people unwittingly undermine the emotional intimacy in their relationship because they are attached to a result, such as approval or agreement, and feel as if they can’t live without…

A man who doesn’t have mastery over himself — his thoughts, his emotions, his body, his purpose — is seen as infantile and not trustworthy to a woman.And that means she *definitely*…