The "Tzadik" Trap: How Over-Selflessness Sabotages Emotional Intimacy
March 1, 2026
Professionals Who Specialize in Premarital Counseling
Moses Appel, PhD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D.
-
Brooklyn
- $150 - $350 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"At ADO Psychology Center, our approach is deeply rooted in compassion and evidence-based methods that foster personal growth and recovery. We draw from a evidence-based modalities, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Dialectical Behavior …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
-
Brooklyn
- $60 - $150 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
-
Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225 Per Session
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Moshe Norman
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
-
Lakewood
- $225 - $300 Per Session
"My approach to therapy is bottom-up. Meaning, we examine early life experiences to understand present-day conflict and suffering. Your past is your present! I help my clients gain deep insight into their past and present life and identify …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
-
Cedarhurst
- $150 - $300 Per Session
- Insurance
- 3 reviews
"My therapeutic approach is rooted in several key principles: 1. Genuine Connection: We have a unique opportunity here, in the therapeutic space, to share and connect authentically, which is often scary or impossible in the "real world". You …
From Chaos to Calm
Support Groups, Group Coaching for women with ADHD (or ADHD-like challenges)
"This group is for women struggling with the challenges of ADHD, whether diagnosed or not, who want practical support around organization, emotional regulation, time management, and more. You’ll receive support, connection, and actionable tips that build on your …
Rabbi Alexander Coleman, MFT
Therapists, Marriage & Family Therapist, Coach
"My approach to therapy and coaching integrates the foundational concepts of Jewish wisdom and spirituality, which I believe offer a deeply meaningful window into the human experience, together with tried and tested techniques that have evolved over the …
Rachel Steinhardt, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
-
Boca Raton
- $250 - $300 Per Session
- 1 review
"I truly believe in a not one size fits all approach to therapy. I believe each person has a unique experience with individualized needs and I do my best to customize my care and tailor it to the …
Lee Grant, Psychotherapist
Therapists, Psychotherapist
-
Welwyn
- £85 - £145 Per Session
- 5 reviews
"I opened my practice, Rollswood Therapy, as a space to blend the depth of psychology with practical tools for everyday life. My approach draws on both the systemic insights of science and the symbolic expressions of the arts. …
Becky Fenton, PsyD
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, PsyD
-
West Hempstead
- $300 - $350 Per Session
- 1 review
"In my therapeutic approach, I seamlessly integrate proven methodologies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Cognitive Processing Therapy, psychodynamic and relational therapy, Mindfulness Training, and executive function coaching. This eclectic blend allows me to effectively support …
Smart Therapy PC
Therapy that Listens Mental Strength that Lasts
"We offer highly personalized care through our virtual individual, couples, group, and family sessions for clients throughout New York. Our goal is to meet you where you are and tailor the work to your unique needs, pace, and …
Lauren Hofstatter, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
-
Boca Raton
- $300 - $350 Per Session
"I take a solution-focused, goal-oriented approach to therapy and coaching, which means I prioritize helping my clients move forward in practical, meaningful ways. While exploring emotions and past experiences has its place, I believe progress comes when we …
The "Tzadik" Trap: How Over-Selflessness Sabotages Emotional Intimacy In many relationships, there is a specific type of man who prides himself on being "easygoing." He’s the one who, when asked where he…
Full ArticleRespect in Marriage
Feb. 26, 2026
The K.E.F. Rule: How to Actually Enjoy Your Spouse Again
Feb. 16, 2026
Imagine trying to maintain a high-end sports car but never taking it out of the garage. You polish the hood, you check the tire pressure, you talk about the insurance…
Full Article
In marriage, the distinction between a “Man” and a “Boy” has little to do with age, and everything to do with emotional maturity. A Boy views his relationship as a source of validation or a place to be taken…
Full ArticleWhy Men Stop Trying
Feb. 3, 2026
Most people have experienced this at least once. Someone comes to you asking for a favor. Not a small one, either. They frame it as urgent, life-changing, the thing that…
Full ArticleTriggered By Your Spouse
Feb. 1, 2026
Sometimes your partner has little to do with how hurt you are feeling. After a disagreement or fight with your spouse do you... find it difficult to set it aside…
Full ArticleRace To Be The Victim
Jan. 27, 2026
There you are. Sitting on the edge of the bed. Feeling the sting of an argument. In that moment, your brain does something fascinating and slightly devious. It begins to…
Full ArticleSNOW DAYS (& Your Relationship)
Jan. 25, 2026
A snow day is one of the few modern interruptions that still feels ancient. The world goes quiet. Plans dissolve. Time stretches. You’re forced inside -- with your spouse, your…
Full ArticleWhen Nothing Is Wrong but Everything Feels Off
Jan. 20, 2026
Most marriages that result in separation don’t just fall apart all of a sudden. They slowly go numb. There are couples that come to me when the house is functioning, the kids are…
Full ArticleFrom Disconnect to Deep Devotion
Jan. 18, 2026
Many couples reach a point where the spark hasn't just flickered -- it feels extinguished. They describe it as living with a "roommate" or, worse, a "competitor." The conversations are…
Full Article
Let’s get one thing clear: every human being is inherently high value. Your essential worth isn’t something to be earned — it’s woven into the fabric of your existence.But what…
Full Article
We all want that feeling of being 'one' with our spouse. We want to be finishing each other's sentences and seeing the world through the same eyes. It’s the dream…
Full Article
Understanding Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is a form of couples therapy that helps individuals preparing for marriage navigate the challenges and opportunities that come with a committed partnership. It provides a safe and supportive environment for couples to explore their expectations, communication styles, and shared values, as well as to build a strong foundation for a healthy and lasting marriage.
Application and Scope of Premarital Counseling:
Premarital Counseling is primarily applied to couples who are engaged or planning to get married. It's particularly effective for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, address potential areas of conflict, and develop the skills needed for a successful and fulfilling marriage. Premarital Counseling is relevant for couples of all backgrounds and orientations.
What to Expect in Premarital Counseling Sessions:
In Premarital Counseling sessions, couples work with a trained therapist who guides them through discussions and exercises focused on various aspects of their relationship. These may include topics like communication, conflict resolution, financial management, and future goals. The aim is to foster open and effective communication, increase understanding, and build a strong foundation for a healthy marriage.