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Professionals Who Specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $60 - $150
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Shaindy Litchfield, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Borough Park
- $200 - $250
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is grounded in empathy and collaboration, guided by the belief that lasting change happens when you feel fully supported and actively involved in your own healing journey. I view therapy as a partnership—one where …
Alla R Shapiro, LMHC-D, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Livingston
- $200 - $300
"Most couples don't come to therapy because they forgot how to love each other. They come because they've gotten stuck in painful patterns—repeating the same argument, feeling disconnected, struggling with intimacy, navigating parenting stress, or trying to figure …
Rachel Lowinger
Therapists, PhD
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Lawrence
- $250
"My style is warm and personable and I am looking forward to getting to knowing you.
Simi Schwartz, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Long Island
- $150 - $200
- Insurance
"While I am trained in a variety of evidence-based practices such as CBT, IFS, ACT, and DBT, my approach to therapy is deeply rooted in being client-centered and collaborative. I firmly believe that therapy is not a one-size-fits-all …
Miriam Scheiner, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Monsey
- $325
- 3 reviews
"My goal is to help couples create lasting change so that therapy does not become a permanent part of their lives. I believe therapy should be a powerful chapter in the story of a relationship, not the whole …
Ilan Weinberg
Therapists, MFT Intern, Family & Teen Coach
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Kingston
- $175
- Insurance
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is warm, collaborative, and deeply relational. I believe meaningful change begins with feeling genuinely understood and seen, so I strive to create a space where you feel heard, respected, emotionally accompanied, and safe enough …
Shterna Levy-Haim, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
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Brooklyn
- $250 - $300
- Insurance
"In therapy, my approach is deeply experiential. I believe that the present moment holds the key to unlocking deeper understanding, so I will guide you to explore your current emotions and experiences. By focusing on the here and …
Rivky Blatt, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- Insurance
"As a social worker, my approach to therapy is rooted in flexibility, empathy, and collaboration. I believe in meeting my clients where they are, both emotionally and mentally, and tailoring my methods to fit their unique needs. Every …
Esther Teitelbaum, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Far Rockaway
- $200 - $250
- Insurance
- 1 review
"I see so many individuals struggling with anxiety, trauma, and complex interpersonal relationships, often seeking something deeper and more transformative than traditional talk therapy can offer. It is common to feel frustrated when therapy seems to address only …
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Understanding Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a type of therapy that focuses on helping couples and individuals understand and improve their emotional connections. EFT helps you and your partner better understand your feelings and needs, so you can build a stronger and more supportive relationship.
Application and Scope of EFT:
EFT is used to improve relationships and address issues like communication problems, conflicts, and distance between partners. It's really good for couples who want to feel closer and more connected to each other. EFT has been proven to be effective in helping couples improve their relationships and build more secure bonds.
What to Expect in EFT Sessions:
In EFT sessions, you and your partner work with a therapist to talk about your feelings, needs, and how you communicate. The therapist helps you both understand each other better and find new ways to express your emotions. EFT sessions provide a safe space for you to work through conflicts and learn how to support each other emotionally.