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Professionals Who Specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $80 - $150
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Shani Hochstadter, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Professional Counselor
"I use a warm, collaborative approach, rooted in the belief that people’s experiences and stories deserve to be understood within the context of their lives and relationships. I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental space where people feel …
Sara Duato-Borenstein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I view the therapy process as a collaborative journey, where the client and I work together to create meaningful change. It’s important to me that every client feels supported, cared for, and safe—this foundation is essential for true …
Moshe Norman
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Lakewood
- $225 - $300
"My approach to therapy is bottom-up. Meaning, we examine early life experiences to understand present-day conflict and suffering. Your past is your present! I help my clients gain deep insight into their past and present life and identify …
Michelle Mattie Smith, LSW
Therapists, Licensed Social Worker
"I’m a bit of a jack of all trades, with a Master of Social Work and a deep passion for supporting children and teens. Over the years, I’ve had the opportunity to work with youth in a variety …
Esther (Ellen) Gendelman
Therapists, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
"I believe that close connections are the essence of a fulfilling life. Without meaningful relationships, life can feel dark and lonely. In my practice, I've found that a positive, nurturing approach centered on identifying and building strengths, drawing …
Rachel Lasarow, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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New York
- $250
"My therapeutic approach is rooted in evidence-based practices while also drawing from a diverse range of therapeutic modalities, tailored to each client's unique needs. I integrate techniques from various trauma modalities, attachment theory, cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, …
Ari Perl
Therapists, LCSW
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Kew Gardens Hills
- $250 - $300
"The therapeutic relationship is so powerful because of the innate qualities of each and every one of us. With Ari you find self-discovery and personal growth- that gets results. Wholesome Process & Results. Ari is humanistic, holistic, and …
Aliza Schulman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Jerusalem
- $200 - $300
- 1 review
"My approach is very individual. I conceptualize the case using psychoanalytic and psychodynamic principles, but when it comes to the actual work we do together, I want to understand what the client wants and where I think they …
Eli Portal, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Woodmere
- $300 - $350
"My approach to therapy is rooted in the belief that every person deserves to feel understood, respected, and accepted. I strive to create a warm, authentic, and collaborative environment where clients feel safe exploring the parts of themselves …
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Understanding Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a type of therapy that focuses on helping couples and individuals understand and improve their emotional connections. EFT helps you and your partner better understand your feelings and needs, so you can build a stronger and more supportive relationship.
Application and Scope of EFT:
EFT is used to improve relationships and address issues like communication problems, conflicts, and distance between partners. It's really good for couples who want to feel closer and more connected to each other. EFT has been proven to be effective in helping couples improve their relationships and build more secure bonds.
What to Expect in EFT Sessions:
In EFT sessions, you and your partner work with a therapist to talk about your feelings, needs, and how you communicate. The therapist helps you both understand each other better and find new ways to express your emotions. EFT sessions provide a safe space for you to work through conflicts and learn how to support each other emotionally.