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Professionals Who Specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Rebecca Kivelevitz, M.S. Ed
Therapists, School Psychologist
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Brooklyn
- $80 - $150
- 2 reviews
"My approach is eclectic, meaning I thoughtfully tailor each session to the unique needs, personality, and background of the individual sitting across from me. I don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all method — people are complex, and so the …
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Beverly DAmico
RN, MSN, CGRS, FAF
"In my practice, I prioritize the importance of mutual agreement between the client and the coach regarding the care plan. To ensure a good fit, I offer an initial free 15-minute assessment where both parties can evaluate if …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $250
- Insurance
- 4 reviews
"Our work is focused on helping you reconnect—not just manage conflict, but truly feel like a team again. We identify and shift the deeper relational patterns driving conflict, disconnection, and emotional distance. Rather than staying at the surface, …
Brenda Landau, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Brooklyn
- $200
"My approach is primarily relational, and I use humor when appropriate. We work on understanding your attachment history, and how it shows up in your life. We address unresolved trauma, and work towards healing and growing from those …
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"I'm the Problem: For adults who grew up feeling like too much — or not enough 🫵🏻 This group is for you if: -You want closeness but something always gets in the way.-You've been left, rejected, feel like a …
Sara Duato-Borenstein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I view the therapy process as a collaborative journey, where the client and I work together to create meaningful change. It’s important to me that every client feels supported, cared for, and safe—this foundation is essential for true …
Brooke English
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, RYT
"In my practice, I've accumulated over a decade of experience specializing in helping adults and adolescents who have encountered various forms of trauma. This includes individuals who grew up in abusive or emotionally neglectful households, those who experienced …
Aryeh Wadler, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $225
"The foundation of my therapeutic approach is rooted in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and attachment theory. I place a strong emphasis on the relational aspects of therapy, focusing on both a person's relationship with themselves and their relationships …
Alla R Shapiro, LMHC-D, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Livingston
- $200 - $300
"Most couples don't come to therapy because they forgot how to love each other. They come because they've gotten stuck in painful patterns—repeating the same argument, feeling disconnected, struggling with intimacy, navigating parenting stress, or trying to figure …
Shterna Levy-Haim, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
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Brooklyn
- $250 - $300
"In therapy, my approach is deeply experiential. I believe that the present moment holds the key to unlocking deeper understanding, so I will guide you to explore your current emotions and experiences. By focusing on the here and …
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Understanding Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a type of therapy that focuses on helping couples and individuals understand and improve their emotional connections. EFT helps you and your partner better understand your feelings and needs, so you can build a stronger and more supportive relationship.
Application and Scope of EFT:
EFT is used to improve relationships and address issues like communication problems, conflicts, and distance between partners. It's really good for couples who want to feel closer and more connected to each other. EFT has been proven to be effective in helping couples improve their relationships and build more secure bonds.
What to Expect in EFT Sessions:
In EFT sessions, you and your partner work with a therapist to talk about your feelings, needs, and how you communicate. The therapist helps you both understand each other better and find new ways to express your emotions. EFT sessions provide a safe space for you to work through conflicts and learn how to support each other emotionally.