Using Flash Therapy to confront your phobias

If you read my last article, you know how much I love Flash Therapy. That article explained how I use it to treat acute trauma. Flash is a very versatile tool, one which can be used to treat phobias as well. Phobias can feel overwhelming, and really control your life. Whether it’s a fear of flying, spiders, or speaking in public, these anxieties often show up uninvited and take over. For years, exposure therapy has been the go-to treatment—slowly confronting the fear until it loses its grip. But let’s be honest—exposure therapy can feel daunting, sometimes even exhausting.Flash Therapy is a newer, faster, and much gentler approach to overcoming phobias. It’s a method that skips the heavy lifting and dives straight into feeling better.Flash Therapy is a technique that helps the brain process fear in small, manageable steps—without having to fully face it head-on. It’s designed to work quickly, often in just a few sessions, and focuses on creating positive emotions while addressing fear in brief flashes.Instead of dragging you through long, intense encounters with your fears, Flash Therapy gently nudges your brain to reprocess the emotional response, so your fear feels smaller and less threatening.Now, I’m not saying traditional exposure therapy doesn’t work. It does. But let’s be real—it’s like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. Sure, you’ll get there eventually, but it’s going to be slow, painful, and probably involve a few blisters. Flash Therapy, on the other hand, is like taking a helicopter to the top. It gets you there quickly, with minimal discomfort, and you can enjoy the view without feeling like you’re about to pass out.First off, there’s no need for elaborate setups. You don’t have to book a flight or rent a tarantula Instead, Flash Therapy lets you face your fears mentally. This means no awkward field trips to the zoo to stare down snakes or spiders. All you need is your imagination. Traditional exposure therapy can drag on for weeks or even months, inching you closer to your fear one painful step at a time. Flash Therapy? You might see results in a single session. It's also way less painful. Exposure therapy can feel like emotional boot camp. Flash Therapy, on the other hand, keeps things light. You spend most of the session focusing on happy thoughts, while briefly dipping your toes into the scary stuff. Here is an outline of how the session looks:

 

1. First, you and your therapist pinpoint the fear that’s been ruining your life.

2. Next, you conjure up a happy memory, something that makes you feel warm and fuzzy.

3. Then comes the magic. While you’re basking in those good vibes, you briefly think about your fear, but only in short flashes. It’s quick and manageable, like peeking at something scary through your fingers.

4. You repeat this again until it doesn't bother you anymore.

In summary, Flash Therapy is faster, less painful, and a lot quicker than traditional exposure to your fear. It has become a favorite tool in my therapy room. 

About the author

Rocheli Sternheim, LCSW

Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW

Sometimes when you’re in a dark place, you think you’ve been buried, but you’ve actually been planted.

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