A man who doesn’t have mastery over himself — his thoughts, his emotions, his body, his purpose — is seen as infantile and not trustworthy to a woman.
And that means she *definitely* can’t let her guard down with him in a relationship.
This causes women to lose respect and lose attraction, as she becomes emotionally drained by the neverending drama that comes along with being in relationship with him.
It's not that the man feels emotions, but because he becomes untrustworthy in his regulation of those feelings.
This is where respect, trust, and attraction begin to erode.
She hardens when she senses that you can’t handle your own inner world—and now, she has to.
For a woman, that’s not partnership. That’s pressure. And pressure is an attraction killer for a woman.
To be clear, it’s not the presence of emotion that causes a woman to pull away—it’s the lack of his ability to take ownership over his emotions.
If she feels like she has to manage your emotional state, she’ll become emotionally depleted.
A woman doesn’t become more distant or harden because you share something.
A woman becomes more feminine and vulnerable when she feels safe.
Masculine strength is quiet. Calm. Decisive.
Strong men don’t react.
They pause. They assess.
Then they respond — not from emotion, but from grounded choice.
That is leadership.
That is emotional mastery.
That is masculine power.
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