Understanding Codependency in the Jewish Community

Hello and welcome to our dedicated space for discussing and addressing codependency within the Jewish community. Our site features a diverse range of professionals, therapists, and content focused on combating and understanding codependency in the Jewish community.

Unique Challenges of Codependency in the Jewish Community

When individuals within the Jewish community struggle with codependency, which is often shaped by distinct cultural and religious factors, it represents a specific category of challenges faced by this group. Codependency can manifest as an excessive focus on others' needs, difficulty setting boundaries, low self-esteem, and a strong need for approval. Often, cultural expectations around family roles and religious obligations can contribute to codependent patterns. It can impact emotional well-being, relationships, and overall functioning.

Watch the videos below to gain insights from Jewish professionals, therapists, and advocates. These resources offer extensive knowledge on addressing codependency within the Jewish community, providing expert guidance and culturally sensitive techniques.

Turning Tiffs into Triumphs

Small arguments aren’t the problem, missed repair is. Learn how curiosity, humor, and vulnerability can turn conflicts into deeper connection and intimacy.

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Understanding People-Pleasing as a Trauma Wound

People-pleasing is a behavior that many individuals exhibit, often to the detriment of their own well-being. At its core, people-pleasing involves prioritizing others’ needs and feelings over one’s own, often…

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The Influence of Ancestry on Partner Selection: Healing Unhealthy Patterns

When we think about our choice of partners, it’s easy to focus solely on personal preferences and individual experiences. However, a deeper layer of our partner selection may be rooted…

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Why Empaths with an Anxious Attachment Style Are Vulnerable to Toxic Relationships

In the complex world of relationships, understanding attachment styles can provide insight into why some individuals find themselves in toxic situations. Among these, empaths – those who are highly attuned…

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Healing Transgenerational Trauma Through Somatic Experiencing

Transgenerational trauma, the emotional and psychological scars passed down from one generation to another, can profoundly affect individuals and families. This phenomenon often manifests in anxiety, depression, and unhealthy relationship…

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Fighting Fairly: A Journey Toward Connection

Discover how fair fighting deepens relationships by fostering respect, understanding, and growth. Explore the transformative power of conflict and connection.

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Unlocking the Unconscious: The Transformative Power of Sand Tray Therapy for Children and Adults

In a world where traditional talk therapy can sometimes feel limiting, sand tray therapy emerges as a dynamic and creative alternative. Picture this: a miniature landscape filled with vibrant figures,…

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Dependency in Therapy

Dependency in Therapy by Shayna Shafier, MHC-LP, Mental Health Counselor, Limited Permit

Am I too dependent on my therapist?         This is a question that many people in therapy find themselves asking. Especially people with a history of attachment wounding…

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Professionals Who Specialize in Codependency

Danielle Taylor, LMHC

Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC

  • Remote only

Danielle Taylor, LMHC, incorporates CBT, ACT, and psychodynamic therapy. For couples, she specializes in the Gottman Method & more to fortify relationship dynamics.


" I prioritize a holistic perspective on wellness, recognizing that true well-being encompasses a delicate balance of physical, emotional, spiritual, and relational dimensions. I understand that each individual's journey toward wellness is unique, and I tailor my approach to …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Fraidy Shagalov, LCSW

Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

  • Remote only

Fraidy Shagalov, LCSW believes therapy should be as dynamic as the people it serves, so she uses an intuitive approach to connect with clients on a deeper level.


" My approach to therapy is rooted in a calm and relaxed demeanor, creating a space where clients feel genuinely at ease sharing their experiences. I strive to maintain a balance between being casual and professional, which helps foster …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 👂 Listener
  • 🧘 Calm
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Sara Blank, LMSW

Therapist, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY

  • In-office Brooklyn, New York

Sara Blank, LMSW, works from an attachment-focused lens, IFS, and uses trauma-informed practices to ensure that the therapy process feels safe and empowering.


" I see therapy as a deeply collaborative process—a partnership where your voice, experiences, and goals take center stage. I aim to create a safe, compassionate space where you feel heard, understood, and supported as you navigate your unique …

  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💙 Warm
  • 💪 Challenging
  • 🥇 Empowering

Lauren Gerardi, LMHC

Therapist, Licensed Mental Health Counselor

  • Remote only

Lauren Gerardi, LMHC, takes a holistic & trauma-informed approach to wellness, integrating techniques from CBT, DBT, ACT, & more, to help her clients heal & grow.


" I take a holistic and trauma-informed approach to mental wellness, understanding that the mind and body are deeply interconnected and that past experiences often play a significant role in shaping current circumstances. My goal is to meet you …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 💭 Open minded

Rachel Lasarow, LCSW

Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

  • In-office New York

Rachel Lasarow, LCSW integrates various trauma modalities, attachment theory, CBT, DBT, and EFT, to address specific issues and promote holistic well-being.


" My therapeutic approach is rooted in evidence-based practices while also drawing from a diverse range of therapeutic modalities, tailored to each client's unique needs. I integrate techniques from various trauma modalities, attachment theory, cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 💭 Open minded

Tamara Fass, LMSW

Therapist, Licensed Master Social Worker

  • In-office Long Beach, New York

Tamara Fass, LMSW integrates PACT and strives to create a safe space where couples can heal, grow, and strengthen their bonds in ways they never thought possible.


" As I delved deeper into the world of trauma therapy, I found myself captivated by the groundbreaking PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy) model. Its unique principles and methodologies stood out to me, offering a fresh perspective on …

  • 😃 Humorous
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🐣 Out of the box
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Sarit Shaer

Healer & Life Coach

  • In-office Israel

Sarit Shaer's methodology encompasses the recognition that the origins of many physical ailments and challenges lie in emotional and psychological factors.


" I embrace the principles of the Dr. Sarno method, which resonates deeply with my approach to guiding individuals towards holistic well-being. Central to this methodology is the recognition that the origins of many physical ailments and challenges lie …

  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 💭 Open minded
  • 🌎 Holistic

Tova Wacholder

Certified Coach

  • Remote only

Tova Wacholder specializes in supporting adults who are navigating complex dynamics of relationships, particularly those rooted in their family of origin.


" I specialize in supporting young adults and adults who are navigating the often complex and challenging dynamics of relationships, particularly those rooted in their family of origin. I know that each person’s journey is unique, and I’m committed …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🌎 Holistic
  • 🧘 Calm

Aryeh Wadler, LCSW

Therapist, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

  • In-office Lakewood, New Jersey

Aryeh Wadler, LCSW, integrates IFS, attachment theory, and more to help his clients improve their relationships with themselves and others.


" The foundation of my therapeutic approach is rooted in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and attachment theory. I place a strong emphasis on the relational aspects of therapy, focusing on both a person's relationship with themselves and their relationships …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 😃 Humorous
  • 👂 Listener
  • 🥇 Empowering

Pesach Tikvah

Achieving Peace of Mind

  • In-office Brooklyn, New York

Pesach Tikvah offers culturally sensitive mental health care, addiction support, therapy, developmental disability services, and holistic community programs.


" Pesach Tikvah provides an extensive array of programs and services designed to support individuals across the lifespan, ensuring that no one feels left behind. Each offering reflects the organization’s mission to address the diverse needs of the community …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🙏 Spiritual
  • 🤝 Collaborative

Avigail Teiler, LMSW

Therapist, Licensed Master Social Worker

  • In-office New City, New York

Avigail Teiler, LMSW, is a trauma-informed, psychodynamic therapist, who places a strong emphasis on attachment styles and inner child work.


" As a trauma-informed, psychodynamic therapist, I place a strong emphasis on attachment styles and inner child work. I recognize that each person is unique, and while I specialize in these areas, I consider myself eclectic in my therapeutic …

  • 🎯 Direct
  • 💙 Warm
  • 🥇 Empowering
  • 🧘 Calm

Meli Pil, MHC-LP

Therapist, Mental Health Counselor, Limited Permit: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY

  • In-office Borough Park, New York

Avrahom Pil is a therapist whose approach is rooted in collaboration & exploration, incorporating conversation & experiential exercises to help his clients heal.


" My approach to therapy is collaborative and rooted in exploration. Rather than simply identifying problems and prescribing solutions, I work with my clients to help them uncover and understand their inner worlds. Therapy, to me, is an emotional …

  • 💙 Warm
  • 💭 Open minded
  • 🔥 Energetic
  • 🌎 Holistic

Understanding and Addressing Codependency within the Jewish Community

Codependency is a pressing concern across various communities, with the Jewish community facing its own specific obstacles. While the broader societal understanding of codependency exists, the intricacies of relationships and dynamics within the Jewish community add layers of complexity. Codependency within the Jewish community can affect individuals regardless of age, gender, or background, highlighting the need for awareness and targeted interventions.

Strategies for Addressing Codependency in the Jewish Community

Effective support and treatment for Jewish individuals struggling with codependency necessitate approaches that are culturally and religiously attuned. This encompasses therapy that respects religious beliefs and cultural practices, community support networks that provide a sense of belonging and understanding, and psychoeducation to build healthy relationship skills. Tailored therapies and interventions are developed to address the specific facets of codependency within the Jewish community. It's crucial to seek professional guidance to navigate these challenges effectively, ensuring a path towards personal growth and fulfilling relationships. It's important to note that our professionals are experts in their fields, bringing both specialized knowledge and a deep understanding of cultural nuances to their work

Our directory features professionals, including Therapists, Psychiatrists & Coaches, who offer culturally sensitive support for those navigating Codependency within the Jewish community.

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