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Professionals Who Specialize in Codependency
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225 Per Session
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Sheri Bardos, Psy.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology
"Traditional psychology often focuses on human pathology, diagnosing people into limiting boxes. My passion, however, lies in human potential—helping you uncover and embrace your most authentic self. Coaches typically emphasize shaping your ideal future self, paying less attention …
Chana Lampner, LCSW, ATR-P
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Art Therapist
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Lakewood
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is integrative, drawing from a variety of therapeutic interventions, including Art Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and inner parts work. Each of these modalities can help individuals reach a place of healing …
Sarede Rachel Switzer, Certified Coach
Life & Dating Coach
"I believe that every individual already carries the answers they need within themselves. Over the years, I have seen again and again how much clarity people actually have once they are given the space to pause, reflect, and …
Carol Braha, CPC
Certified Professional Coach
"My approach to coaching is warm, collaborative, and deeply client-centered. I do not tell people what to do, and I am not interested in molding anyone into someone they are not. Instead, I help clients reconnect with who …
Zahavah Fishfeld, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
"Because trauma has played a role in so many lives, addressing it and learning how to emotionally regulate is incredibly important. Trauma can show up in many ways, including suppressing feelings, turning to unhealthy behaviors, and experiencing complicated …
Batsheva Bomzer, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Pomona
- $200 - $200 Per Session
- 2 reviews
"I take an integrative and client-centered approach to therapy, drawing from a range of evidence-based modalities to meet each person where they are. I’m trained in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), …
Chanchy Tenenbaum
Life Alignment Coach & Certified Hypnotist
"I use a combination of powerful holistic coaching methods and embodied life experiences to support you through your journey. My approach weaves together Forming, Inner Freedom Technique, REframing, Parts Work, Inner Child Work, and Chassidic Philosophy, all held …
Malka Katzenstein
Relationship and Couples Coach
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Montebello
- $150 - $250 Per Session
"My approach is relational, emotionally focused, and grounded in the belief that our sense of self is shaped within relationships—past and present. I help clients move away from reactive patterns and toward greater emotional awareness, self-trust, and intentional …
Sarah Greenberg, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Monsey
- $225 - $350 Per Session
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is relational, attachment-focused, and insight-oriented. I work with clients to explore how early attachment experiences, formative relationships, and past relational wounds continue to shape emotional patterns, internal narratives, and the ways we relate to …
Rachy Friedlander, Somatic Coach
Emotions Master Coach/TEB Practitioner
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Lakewood
- $180 - $325 Per Session
- 5 reviews
"My coaching approach is deeply influenced by my exploration of emotional healing through the spiritual lenses of Kabbalah and Chassidus. Each session is approached intuitively, drawing from a diverse toolbox that includes modalities such as psychodrama, IFS (Internal …
Shaina Bryski, LMSW, CASAC-T
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Worker & CASAC-T: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- $100 - $150 Per Session
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is rooted in compassion, understanding, and a genuine commitment to meeting you where you are. As a client-centered therapist, I specialize in supporting young adults and adults as they navigate trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction, …
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Hello and welcome to our dedicated space for discussing and addressing codependency within the Jewish community. Our site features a diverse range of professionals, therapists, and content focused on combating and understanding codependency in the Jewish community.
Unique Challenges of Codependency in the Jewish Community
When individuals within the Jewish community struggle with codependency, which is often shaped by distinct cultural and religious factors, it represents a specific category of challenges faced by this group. Codependency can manifest as an excessive focus on others' needs, difficulty setting boundaries, low self-esteem, and a strong need for approval. Often, cultural expectations around family roles and religious obligations can contribute to codependent patterns. It can impact emotional well-being, relationships, and overall functioning.
Watch the videos below to gain insights from Jewish professionals, therapists, and advocates. These resources offer extensive knowledge on addressing codependency within the Jewish community, providing expert guidance and culturally sensitive techniques.
Understanding and Addressing Codependency within the Jewish Community
Codependency is a pressing concern across various communities, with the Jewish community facing its own specific obstacles. While the broader societal understanding of codependency exists, the intricacies of relationships and dynamics within the Jewish community add layers of complexity. Codependency within the Jewish community can affect individuals regardless of age, gender, or background, highlighting the need for awareness and targeted interventions.
Strategies for Addressing Codependency in the Jewish Community
Effective support and treatment for Jewish individuals struggling with codependency necessitate approaches that are culturally and religiously attuned. This encompasses therapy that respects religious beliefs and cultural practices, community support networks that provide a sense of belonging and understanding, and psychoeducation to build healthy relationship skills. Tailored therapies and interventions are developed to address the specific facets of codependency within the Jewish community. It's crucial to seek professional guidance to navigate these challenges effectively, ensuring a path towards personal growth and fulfilling relationships. It's important to note that our professionals are experts in their fields, bringing both specialized knowledge and a deep understanding of cultural nuances to their work
Our directory features professionals, including Therapists, Psychiatrists & Coaches, who offer culturally sensitive support for those navigating Codependency within the Jewish community.