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Professionals Who Specialize in Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Simi Schwartz, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Long Island
- $150 - $200
- Insurance
"While I am trained in a variety of evidence-based practices such as CBT, IFS, ACT, and DBT, my approach to therapy is deeply rooted in being client-centered and collaborative. I firmly believe that therapy is not a one-size-fits-all …
Aaron Silverman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I work with couples, families, adults, and teens who struggle with being themselves in the world, especially around transitions, beginnings, and endings. These can be times when old patterns get stirred up and it feels hard to stay …
Chana Leah, Coach
Subconscious Reprogramming & Energy Work
"My approach is rooted in the belief that lasting change comes from working with the deeper layers of the mind, body, and emotions. Not just surface-level behaviors or thoughts. I focus on uncovering and shifting the subconscious patterns, …
Rachel Toiv, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
"In the therapeutic space, I adopt a confidential, supportive, and validating approach, meeting my clients exactly where they are, armed with a blank slate. My understanding is solely based on what you choose to share, and my connection …
Shira Speiser, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"Building trust and establishing an individualized approach are always the first priorities in my work with clients. From there, as a sense of safety develops, people often begin to share the deeper reasons they came to therapy in …
Eli (Eliezer) Klein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $150
- Insurance
"Your safety is my priority. It’s the foundation for everything we do together in therapy, creating a space where trust can grow and real healing can happen. I work to meet you where you are—emotionally, mentally, and cognitively—because …
Batsheva Bomzer, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Pomona
- $200
- 2 reviews
"I take an integrative and client-centered approach to therapy, drawing from a range of evidence-based modalities to meet each person where they are. I’m trained in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), …
David Lemmer
Hypnotherapist
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Toms River
- $325 - $975
- 2 reviews
"Hypnotherapy. Between the moment something happens in reality and your reaction to it lies an entire world of “meta-data” — memories, experiences, thoughts, and knowledge. All of this information becomes the hidden foundation behind the choices and reactions …
Rivka Silverman, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in trauma-informed care. I draw from Internal Family Systems, Somatic Therapy, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, and EMDR to support healing that includes both the mind and the body. I pay close attention to …
Sury Klein, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master of Social Work
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Lakewood
- $200
"You may have spent years wondering what's wrong with you. Maybe relationships feel harder than they should. You replay conversations for hours. You notice yourself people-pleasing, emotionally shutting down, becoming hyper-independent, or feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions. …
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Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS):
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a psychotherapeutic approach that views the mind as a complex system with various inner parts or "subpersonalities." These inner parts represent different aspects of your personality, each with its own feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. IFS therapy helps individuals explore and harmonize these inner parts to achieve emotional healing and balance.
Application and Scope of Internal Family Systems (IFS):
IFS is applied to address a wide range of emotional concerns, including trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. It's particularly effective for individuals seeking to understand and transform the inner conflicts or "parts" that influence their emotions and behaviors. IFS is relevant for people of all ages and backgrounds.
What to Expect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Sessions:
In IFS sessions, you'll work with a trained therapist who will guide you through a process of internal exploration. You'll identify and interact with different inner parts, gaining insight into their roles and origins. Through compassionate dialogue and visualization techniques, you'll foster understanding and cooperation among these inner parts, leading to emotional healing and self-empowerment.