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Professionals Who Specialize in Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Perel Goldstein, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $225
"I bring an empathic and gentle presence to my work with individuals and families navigating a wide range of life transitions and adversities. At the heart of my approach is a deep respect for the therapeutic relationship—I believe …
Sara Duato-Borenstein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"I view the therapy process as a collaborative journey, where the client and I work together to create meaningful change. It’s important to me that every client feels supported, cared for, and safe—this foundation is essential for true …
Simi Gottesman
Empowerment Coach, Thetahealing & Transforming Touch (TEB) Practitioner
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Toms River
- $150 - $250
- 4 reviews
"My approach is warm, intuitive, trauma-informed, and deeply individualized. I meet my clients exactly where they are, emotionally, spiritually, and in their level of self-awareness. There is no forcing, pushing, or expectation that you need to be anywhere …
Bassy Schwartz, LMFT
Therapists, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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Cedarhurst
- $175 - $250
- Insurance
- 4 reviews
"Our work is focused on helping you reconnect—not just manage conflict, but truly feel like a team again. We identify and shift the deeper relational patterns driving conflict, disconnection, and emotional distance. Rather than staying at the surface, …
Esti Marcus, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Brooklyn
- $275
"With a blend of different therapeutic perspectives, I provide a compassionate and understanding space to support your healing journey. Together, we will explore and process painful experiences, gain deeper insights into your thoughts and emotions, and forge connections …
Beth (Bassie) Gugenheim, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Lakewood
- $200 - $250
"My therapeutic approach is eclectic, blending a combination of the following modalities for individual therapy — Ego State Therapy (working with parts,) PIT (Pia Mellody’s inner child work,) EMDR, Brainspotting, Progressive Counting, Somatic Intervention, Flash, ACT, and Sand …
Henya Gutnick
Inner Child Coach
"My approach to coaching focuses on going back to the younger version of you, the part of you that first learned the beliefs, fears, and patterns you carry today. So much of what shows up now, the inner …
Jonathan Rosenbloom, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Bergenfield
- $200 - $300
- Insurance
- 1 review
"I would describe my approach to therapy as integrative, meaning I draw from a variety of therapeutic modalities to best meet each person’s unique needs. My training and experience in EMDR, IFS, exposure therapy, and CBT allow me …
Solomon Weinreb, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- $150 - $200
- Insurance
"Therapy is both an art and a science, blending evidence-based techniques with the intuitive understanding of each unique individual. While both aspects are essential for meaningful progress, my personal approach leans more toward the intuitive side, creating a …
Sury Klein, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master of Social Work
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Lakewood
- $200
"I don't start with trying to get rid of a behavior or reaction. I want to understand what it's doing for you. If a part of you shuts down when someone gets close, there may be a reason. …
Rochel Grossman, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Worker
"In my work, I focus on understanding the many different aspects of yourself that develop over time. People often come to therapy feeling frustrated by their reactions, overwhelmed by intense emotions, or puzzled by recurring patterns in their …
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Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS):
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a psychotherapeutic approach that views the mind as a complex system with various inner parts or "subpersonalities." These inner parts represent different aspects of your personality, each with its own feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. IFS therapy helps individuals explore and harmonize these inner parts to achieve emotional healing and balance.
Application and Scope of Internal Family Systems (IFS):
IFS is applied to address a wide range of emotional concerns, including trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. It's particularly effective for individuals seeking to understand and transform the inner conflicts or "parts" that influence their emotions and behaviors. IFS is relevant for people of all ages and backgrounds.
What to Expect in Internal Family Systems (IFS) Sessions:
In IFS sessions, you'll work with a trained therapist who will guide you through a process of internal exploration. You'll identify and interact with different inner parts, gaining insight into their roles and origins. Through compassionate dialogue and visualization techniques, you'll foster understanding and cooperation among these inner parts, leading to emotional healing and self-empowerment.