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Professionals Who Specialize in Gottman Method
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Eliezer Eagle
Life Coach
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London
- $50 - $90
- 1 review
"My approach is integrative, practical, and compassionate. I work with individuals and couples to understand the patterns that affect thoughts, emotions, behavior, and relationships, and to develop clear, usable tools for change. The work is collaborative and focused …
Rachel Levinson, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"In my practice, I cultivate a warm, open, and empathetic atmosphere, aiming to establish a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients. Utilizing a strengths-based perspective, I strive to create an environment where individuals feel comfortable and supported. …
Rivky Blatt, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- Insurance
"As a social worker, my approach to therapy is rooted in flexibility, empathy, and collaboration. I believe in meeting my clients where they are, both emotionally and mentally, and tailoring my methods to fit their unique needs. Every …
Rachel Tuchman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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New York
- $200
"While I commonly utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as my primary therapeutic modality, I also incorporate ABA and DBT techniques to tailor the treatment to each client's unique needs. For clients who may not have the prerequisite skills …
Robin Gutman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC, NCC
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Monsey
- $200 - $250
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is highly personalized, and I often utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS) as the primary modality. I also integrate elements from other therapeutic approaches based on each individual's unique needs.
Eli (Eliezer) Klein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $150
- Insurance
"Your safety is my priority. It’s the foundation for everything we do together in therapy, creating a space where trust can grow and real healing can happen. I work to meet you where you are—emotionally, mentally, and cognitively—because …
Pessy (Paula) Neuwirth, MHC- LP, CASAC-T
Therapists, Mental Health Counselor, Limited Permit: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- $100 - $200
- Insurance
"My approach blends creativity, humor, and unconventional strategies with evidence-based practices to create a dynamic and engaging experience. I tailor each session to my client's unique needs, offering a space where you feel safe, supported, and understood. Therapy …
Tzipi Davatgar, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175 - $250
- Insurance
- 1 review
"I provide supportive guidance, helping individuals build confidence, develop essential skills, and gain tools they need to thrive independently. My approach to therapy is rooted in an attachment-based lens. I recognize how early relationships shape who we are …
Yossi Winner, MFT
Therapists, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
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Boca Raton
- $250 - $300
"My therapeutic approach is deeply rooted in evidence-based practices, ensuring that the methods I use are backed by research and proven to be effective. I combine person-centered and attachment-based theories, which emphasize the importance of a supportive and …
Lauren Hofstatter, LMHC, PhD
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Boca Raton
- $300 - $350
"I take a solution-focused, goal-oriented approach to therapy and coaching, which means I prioritize helping my clients move forward in practical, meaningful ways. While exploring emotions and past experiences has its place, I believe progress comes when we …
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Understanding the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing relationships by understanding and improving the dynamics between partners. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is grounded in decades of scientific research and aims to help couples build stronger connections and healthier interactions.
Application and Scope of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is applied to address a wide range of relationship concerns, including communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy problems, and trust-building. It's particularly effective for couples who want to improve their relationship dynamics, strengthen emotional bonds, and learn practical skills for nurturing their connection. The Gottman Method is relevant for couples at various stages of their relationship journey.
What to Expect in Gottman Method Sessions:
In Gottman Method sessions, you and your partner will work with a trained therapist who uses evidence-based techniques to assess your relationship dynamics and develop a customized treatment plan. The therapist helps you understand the unique strengths and challenges in your relationship and teaches you effective communication skills, conflict management strategies, and ways to foster intimacy and connection.