You only go to couples counseling to change your spouse.
Aug. 23, 2026
Professionals Who Specialize in Gottman Method
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Esther (Ellen) Gendelman
Therapists, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
"I believe that close connections are the essence of a fulfilling life. Without meaningful relationships, life can feel dark and lonely. In my practice, I've found that a positive, nurturing approach centered on identifying and building strengths, drawing …
Daniela Weiss, LMSW, C-PST, M.Ed., ABS
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work
"I take an eclectic approach to therapy, drawing heavily from my background in sex therapy and tailoring each session to meet the unique needs of the individual sitting across from me. At the core of my work is …
Eliezer Eagle
Life Coach
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London
- $50 - $90
- 1 review
"My approach is integrative, practical, and compassionate. I work with individuals and couples to understand the patterns that affect thoughts, emotions, behavior, and relationships, and to develop clear, usable tools for change. The work is collaborative and focused …
Dina Cohen, MA, CSAT
Therapists, Certified Sex(Porn)Addiction Therapist
"In my approach to counseling, I place a profound emphasis on the transformative power of the therapeutic relationship. Regardless of the specific modalities employed, I recognize that the core of healing is often rooted in the quality of …
Rachel Levinson, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"In my practice, I cultivate a warm, open, and empathetic atmosphere, aiming to establish a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients. Utilizing a strengths-based perspective, I strive to create an environment where individuals feel comfortable and supported. …
The Unseen Husband
Support Groups, For men struggling to manage difficult circumstance with their spouse.
"This group is designed for men who are ready to make room for what they can't say out loud. Feeling alone inside your own marriage is real, and it is not a sign of weakness. Many men carry …
Alla R Shapiro, LMHC-D, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Livingston
- $200 - $300
"Most couples don't come to therapy because they forgot how to love each other. They come because they've gotten stuck in painful patterns—repeating the same argument, feeling disconnected, struggling with intimacy, navigating parenting stress, or trying to figure …
Penina Eisenberger
Dating & Marriage Coach
"My approach to coaching is centered around empowering couples with the tools, education, and support they need to create the marriage they have always dreamed of. I believe that when couples have the right knowledge and understanding, they …
Rivky Blatt, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- Insurance
"As a social worker, my approach to therapy is rooted in flexibility, empathy, and collaboration. I believe in meeting my clients where they are, both emotionally and mentally, and tailoring my methods to fit their unique needs. Every …
Sheri Bardos, Psy.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology
"Traditional psychology often focuses on human pathology, diagnosing people into limiting boxes. My passion, however, lies in human potential—helping you uncover and embrace your most authentic self. Coaches typically emphasize shaping your ideal future self, paying less attention …
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Understanding the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing relationships by understanding and improving the dynamics between partners. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is grounded in decades of scientific research and aims to help couples build stronger connections and healthier interactions.
Application and Scope of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is applied to address a wide range of relationship concerns, including communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy problems, and trust-building. It's particularly effective for couples who want to improve their relationship dynamics, strengthen emotional bonds, and learn practical skills for nurturing their connection. The Gottman Method is relevant for couples at various stages of their relationship journey.
What to Expect in Gottman Method Sessions:
In Gottman Method sessions, you and your partner will work with a trained therapist who uses evidence-based techniques to assess your relationship dynamics and develop a customized treatment plan. The therapist helps you understand the unique strengths and challenges in your relationship and teaches you effective communication skills, conflict management strategies, and ways to foster intimacy and connection.