You only go to couples counseling to change your spouse.
Aug. 23, 2026
Professionals Who Specialize in Gottman Method
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
The Unseen Husband
Support Groups, For men struggling to manage difficult circumstance with their spouse.
"This group is designed for men who are ready to make room for what they can't say out loud. Feeling alone inside your own marriage is real, and it is not a sign of weakness. Many men carry …
Lauren Hofstatter, LMHC, PhD
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
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Boca Raton
- $300 - $350
"I take a solution-focused, goal-oriented approach to therapy and coaching, which means I prioritize helping my clients move forward in practical, meaningful ways. While exploring emotions and past experiences has its place, I believe progress comes when we …
Penina Eisenberger
Dating & Marriage Coach
"My approach to coaching is centered around empowering couples with the tools, education, and support they need to create the marriage they have always dreamed of. I believe that when couples have the right knowledge and understanding, they …
Esther (Ellen) Gendelman
Therapists, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
"I believe that close connections are the essence of a fulfilling life. Without meaningful relationships, life can feel dark and lonely. In my practice, I've found that a positive, nurturing approach centered on identifying and building strengths, drawing …
Alla R Shapiro, LMHC-D, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Livingston
- $200 - $300
"Most couples don't come to therapy because they forgot how to love each other. They come because they've gotten stuck in painful patterns—repeating the same argument, feeling disconnected, struggling with intimacy, navigating parenting stress, or trying to figure …
Eli (Eliezer) Klein, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $150
- Insurance
"Your safety is my priority. It’s the foundation for everything we do together in therapy, creating a space where trust can grow and real healing can happen. I work to meet you where you are—emotionally, mentally, and cognitively—because …
Robin Gutman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC, NCC
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Monsey
- $200 - $250
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is highly personalized, and I often utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS) as the primary modality. I also integrate elements from other therapeutic approaches based on each individual's unique needs.
Sara Freed, Coach
Certified Marriage & Relationship Coach
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Spring Valley
- $150 - $350
- 2 reviews
"Clients often tell me, “You’re so easy to talk to.” That’s because I don’t just listen—I truly get people. I hear what you're saying, even when it's hard to put into words, and I pick up on the …
Hinda Deitsch, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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New York
- $175 - $200
- Insurance
"In my therapeutic approach, I prioritize the transformative power of self-compassion in the journey of healing from shame and guilt. Contrary to common belief, I guide clients away from self-judgment or harshness as the catalyst for change. Instead, …
Shaindy Litchfield, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Borough Park
- $200 - $250
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is grounded in empathy and collaboration, guided by the belief that lasting change happens when you feel fully supported and actively involved in your own healing journey. I view therapy as a partnership—one where …
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Understanding the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing relationships by understanding and improving the dynamics between partners. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is grounded in decades of scientific research and aims to help couples build stronger connections and healthier interactions.
Application and Scope of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is applied to address a wide range of relationship concerns, including communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy problems, and trust-building. It's particularly effective for couples who want to improve their relationship dynamics, strengthen emotional bonds, and learn practical skills for nurturing their connection. The Gottman Method is relevant for couples at various stages of their relationship journey.
What to Expect in Gottman Method Sessions:
In Gottman Method sessions, you and your partner will work with a trained therapist who uses evidence-based techniques to assess your relationship dynamics and develop a customized treatment plan. The therapist helps you understand the unique strengths and challenges in your relationship and teaches you effective communication skills, conflict management strategies, and ways to foster intimacy and connection.