You only go to couples counseling to change your spouse.
Aug. 23, 2026
Professionals Who Specialize in Gottman Method
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Reuven Cohen, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Brooklyn
- $180
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in the understanding that each person is unique and constantly evolving. People are complex, and this complexity requires an ever-adaptive, eclectic approach to therapy. I believe that a therapist's skills must …
Tzipi Davatgar, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175 - $250
- Insurance
- 1 review
"I provide supportive guidance, helping individuals build confidence, develop essential skills, and gain tools they need to thrive independently. My approach to therapy is rooted in an attachment-based lens. I recognize how early relationships shape who we are …
Esther (Ellen) Gendelman
Therapists, Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
"I believe that close connections are the essence of a fulfilling life. Without meaningful relationships, life can feel dark and lonely. In my practice, I've found that a positive, nurturing approach centered on identifying and building strengths, drawing …
Dina Cohen, MA, CSAT
Therapists, Certified Sex(Porn)Addiction Therapist
"In my approach to counseling, I place a profound emphasis on the transformative power of the therapeutic relationship. Regardless of the specific modalities employed, I recognize that the core of healing is often rooted in the quality of …
Robin Gutman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC, NCC
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Monsey
- $200 - $250
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is highly personalized, and I often utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS) as the primary modality. I also integrate elements from other therapeutic approaches based on each individual's unique needs.
Pessy (Paula) Neuwirth, MHC- LP, CASAC-T
Therapists, Mental Health Counselor, Limited Permit: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Brooklyn
- $100 - $200
- Insurance
"My approach blends creativity, humor, and unconventional strategies with evidence-based practices to create a dynamic and engaging experience. I tailor each session to my client's unique needs, offering a space where you feel safe, supported, and understood. Therapy …
Rachel Levinson, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"In my practice, I cultivate a warm, open, and empathetic atmosphere, aiming to establish a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients. Utilizing a strengths-based perspective, I strive to create an environment where individuals feel comfortable and supported. …
Penina Eisenberger
Dating & Marriage Coach
"My approach to coaching is centered around empowering couples with the tools, education, and support they need to create the marriage they have always dreamed of. I believe that when couples have the right knowledge and understanding, they …
Alla R Shapiro, LMHC-D, LPC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Professional Counselor
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Livingston
- $200 - $300
"Most couples don't come to therapy because they forgot how to love each other. They come because they've gotten stuck in painful patterns—repeating the same argument, feeling disconnected, struggling with intimacy, navigating parenting stress, or trying to figure …
Talia Gutlove, LCSW, CST, C-PST
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Five Towns
- $225 - $250
"In my practice, I strive to establish a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive environment where my clients can freely explore their emotions and embark on a journey toward positive change. I believe that each person is unique and no …
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Understanding the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing relationships by understanding and improving the dynamics between partners. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is grounded in decades of scientific research and aims to help couples build stronger connections and healthier interactions.
Application and Scope of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is applied to address a wide range of relationship concerns, including communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy problems, and trust-building. It's particularly effective for couples who want to improve their relationship dynamics, strengthen emotional bonds, and learn practical skills for nurturing their connection. The Gottman Method is relevant for couples at various stages of their relationship journey.
What to Expect in Gottman Method Sessions:
In Gottman Method sessions, you and your partner will work with a trained therapist who uses evidence-based techniques to assess your relationship dynamics and develop a customized treatment plan. The therapist helps you understand the unique strengths and challenges in your relationship and teaches you effective communication skills, conflict management strategies, and ways to foster intimacy and connection.