The idea that someone out there is your “other half” — that finding them will make you whole — sounds romantic. But it’s one of the most destructive things you…

When’s a man does this, she softens, becomes more open, more present, more her.

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Imagine: There you are sitting on your couch playing video games and your wife enters the room and loses it on you: “You never do anything! You don’t have a…

In the dance of a long-term relationship, it’s often the smallest moments that reveal the deepest truths. Earlier today, while switching around rooms in our home, my wife came across…

When a couple begins the work of real change, there is an unspoken expectation that the graph of happiness will simply move up and to the right. We imagine that…

This past week in the counting of the omer, we focused on the power of Gevura, which is all about inner strength, discipline, respectfulness. So it's a good time to…

According to the Rashash, Passover is a cosmic glitch designed to let you escape your own programming. The "Leap" — An Unearned UpgradeMost self-growth is step-by-step. Passover is different —…

Most people don't live; they react. They confuse control for protection and insecurity for kindness. This leads to nonstop problems in life and relationships. During Sefirat HaOmer, we are called…

Sometimes your partner has little to do with how hurt you are feeling. After a disagreement or fight with your spouse do you... find it difficult to set it aside…

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