You only go to couples counseling to change your spouse.
Aug. 23, 2026
Professionals Who Specialize in Gottman Method
Yitzchok Wagshul, Ph.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology, Ph.D
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Brooklyn
- $200
- Insurance
- 6 reviews
"One thing I’ve learned over the years is that there’s no “one size fits all” in psychotherapy, because every person has their own personality and life experience. I respect that, so I’ve put in a lot of time …
Racheli Barasch, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
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Lakewood
- $175
"I believe therapy should feel like a space where you can breathe. It should be safe, comfortable, and free of judgment. My approach is rooted in empathy, curiosity, and real connection. I meet you exactly where you are, …
Reuven Cohen, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW
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Brooklyn
- $180
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is deeply rooted in the understanding that each person is unique and constantly evolving. People are complex, and this complexity requires an ever-adaptive, eclectic approach to therapy. I believe that a therapist's skills must …
Shaindy Litchfield, LMSW
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work: IN PERSON SESSIONS ONLY
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Borough Park
- $200 - $250
- Insurance
"My approach to therapy is grounded in empathy and collaboration, guided by the belief that lasting change happens when you feel fully supported and actively involved in your own healing journey. I view therapy as a partnership—one where …
Rachel Levinson, LCSW
Therapists, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
"In my practice, I cultivate a warm, open, and empathetic atmosphere, aiming to establish a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients. Utilizing a strengths-based perspective, I strive to create an environment where individuals feel comfortable and supported. …
Daniela Weiss, LMSW, C-PST, M.Ed., ABS
Therapists, Licensed Master Social Work
"I take an eclectic approach to therapy, drawing heavily from my background in sex therapy and tailoring each session to meet the unique needs of the individual sitting across from me. At the core of my work is …
Robin Gutman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC, NCC
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Monsey
- $200 - $250
- 1 review
"My approach to therapy is highly personalized, and I often utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS) as the primary modality. I also integrate elements from other therapeutic approaches based on each individual's unique needs.
Michali Friedman, LCSW
Therapists, LCSW-C, Marriage & Sex Therapist
"Collaboration is the cornerstone of my therapy approach. I believe in working together with my clients to identify goals, increase awareness of patterns that impact these goals, and develop the necessary skills for achieving them. Thankfully, I have …
Hinda Deitsch, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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New York
- $175 - $200
- Insurance
"In my therapeutic approach, I prioritize the transformative power of self-compassion in the journey of healing from shame and guilt. Contrary to common belief, I guide clients away from self-judgment or harshness as the catalyst for change. Instead, …
Anna Sherman, MFT
Therapists, Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, RP, MA
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Toronto
- $170 - $190
"I guide clients on their journey of healing and overcoming trauma, while also helping them navigate fears and emotional blocks within their lives and relationships. My goal is to empower clients to become their own advocates, providing them …
Sheri Bardos, Psy.D.
Therapists, Doctor of Psychology
"Traditional psychology often focuses on human pathology, diagnosing people into limiting boxes. My passion, however, lies in human potential—helping you uncover and embrace your most authentic self. Coaches typically emphasize shaping your ideal future self, paying less attention …
Rachel Tuchman, LMHC
Therapists, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
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New York
- $200
"While I commonly utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) as my primary therapeutic modality, I also incorporate ABA and DBT techniques to tailor the treatment to each client's unique needs. For clients who may not have the prerequisite skills …
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Understanding the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is a research-based approach to couples therapy that focuses on enhancing relationships by understanding and improving the dynamics between partners. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is grounded in decades of scientific research and aims to help couples build stronger connections and healthier interactions.
Application and Scope of the Gottman Method:
The Gottman Method is applied to address a wide range of relationship concerns, including communication issues, conflict resolution, intimacy problems, and trust-building. It's particularly effective for couples who want to improve their relationship dynamics, strengthen emotional bonds, and learn practical skills for nurturing their connection. The Gottman Method is relevant for couples at various stages of their relationship journey.
What to Expect in Gottman Method Sessions:
In Gottman Method sessions, you and your partner will work with a trained therapist who uses evidence-based techniques to assess your relationship dynamics and develop a customized treatment plan. The therapist helps you understand the unique strengths and challenges in your relationship and teaches you effective communication skills, conflict management strategies, and ways to foster intimacy and connection.