You Already Know What to Do

You Already Know What to Do by Alana Stern, ADHD Coach


You know what helps:

  • The protein-rich breakfast.
  • The consistent bedtime.
  • All the clear bins and baskets.

You've read the articles on adult ADHD. Saved the Instagram posts. Maybe even asked Chat GPT.

But instead you're:

  • "Revenge-bedtime-procrastinating" past midnight, because that's when you finally get a minute to yourself.
  • Grabbing another coffee because you’ve got no hands to make an omelet when your kids can’t find their socks, need help brushing teeth, or a loving nudge out the door when they don’t want to go to school.
  • Still forgetting what goes in which basket.

Here's what most people get wrong: 

They think the problem is the system.

"If I just found the right strategy, framework or perfectly color-coded routine then everything would be fine."

That's a lie.
You already know what to do.

The problem isn't the system, it's the implementation.

The reason why your system isn’t working is because you expect to go immediately from new behavior to ingrained habit. And you've forgotten that ADHD makes it harder than average to stay the course after the initial inspiration wears off.

When you learn how to persevere and keep going, despite the boredom, you'll build new habits that stick.

I teach my clients a simple 3-step process that ditches perfectionism and gets them consistent results over time.

  1. I show you how to embrace "falling short" as opportunities for feedback and refining.
  2. Together we break down your goals into bite size chunks so you can build a working system one habit at a time.
  3. I'll help you pinpoint unrealistic expectations and adapt them to fit your *real* life.

If you know exactly what you need to do, but you're still not doing it, it's time we talked.

Book a complimentary breakthrough call with me!

We'll figure out what's actually standing in your way. Then we decide together if coaching is the right next step.

What's one thing you want to do... but can't seem to make yourself do consistently?

Comment below. I read every response.

 

About the author

Alana Stern

ADHD Coach

  • In-office Modi'in
  • $135 Per Session
  • 1 review

Alana Stern supports adults & teens with neurodivergent-affirming coaching to improve executive functioning, reduce overwhelm, and build sustainable habits.


"My approach to ADHD coaching is not about helping you become better at being normal. It is about learning to work with your neurodivergent brain instead of constantly fighting against it. I believe real change starts with understanding …

  • 👂 Listener
  • 💡 Solution-oriented
  • 🙌 Affirming
  • 🤝 Collaborative

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