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When Nothing Is Wrong but Everything Feels Off

When Nothing Is Wrong but Everything Feels Off by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Most marriages that result in separation don’t just fall apart all of a sudden.  They slowly go numb. There are couples that come to me when the house is functioning, the kids are…

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From Disconnect to Deep Devotion

From Disconnect to Deep Devotion by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Many couples reach a point where the spark hasn't just flickered -- it feels extinguished. They describe it as living with a "roommate" or, worse, a "competitor." The conversations are…

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The High Value Person — Embodying Self-Worth, Presence, and Personal Power

The High Value Person — Embodying Self-Worth, Presence, and Personal Power by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Let’s get one thing clear: every human being is inherently high value. Your essential worth isn’t something to be earned — it’s woven into the fabric of your existence.But what…

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Why Your Search for 'Oneness' is Leaving You Feeling Alone

Why Your Search for 'Oneness' is Leaving You Feeling Alone by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

We all want that feeling of being 'one' with our spouse. We want to be finishing each other's sentences and seeing the world through the same eyes. It’s the dream…

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The Passive Man You Resent -- & How You Created Him

The Passive Man You Resent -- & How You Created Him by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Recently, I spoke with a woman who complained that her husband has become “passive” and “directionless.” When I asked how she responds when he does take the lead or when…

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Don’t Neuter Your Relationship -- Either you dance with the feminine, or you turn the feminine masculine

Don’t Neuter Your Relationship -- Either you dance with the feminine, or you turn the feminine masculine by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Recently, I had a guy complain to me that his new wife gets emotional about everything. I asked him, “And who says that’s a problem? What if rational isn’t the…

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If she can change you, then you are not really you

If she can change you, then you are not really you by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

According to Kabbalah, in a relationship, the role of the male is to be a "mashpia" — a giver.But "Giver" doesn't mean to simply show up with roses, chocolate or…

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Love that Sticks in 2026 -- How to overcome the 4 things holding you back from a lasting healthy relationship

Love that Sticks in 2026 -- How to overcome the 4 things holding you back from a lasting healthy relationship by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

  I want to share four things that is undermining couplehood and getting in the way of singles building lasting healthy meaningful relationships. If you’ve been searching for love without…

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The Hidden Strength in Vulnerability

The Hidden Strength in Vulnerability by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

The word *vulnerability* is often misunderstood. By definition, it means “capable of being wounded” or “open to attack.” No wonder so many associate it with weakness.But in reality, vulnerability is…

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Give your Partner the Space to say No

Give your Partner the Space to say No by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Many people unwittingly undermine the emotional intimacy in their relationship because they are attached to a result, such as approval or agreement, and feel as if they can’t live without…

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Masculine Mastery & Feminine Softness

Masculine Mastery & Feminine Softness by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

A man who doesn’t have mastery over himself — his thoughts, his emotions, his body, his purpose — is seen as infantile and not trustworthy to a woman.And that means she *definitely*…

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When things are rocky...

When things are rocky... by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

He’s coming home late. And sometimes not at all.Maybe he “needs space”. Or maybe it’s gotten to the point where he’s half-moved-out.He finally comes back — what’s your next move?Ground…

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Be Your Brand... and She will Melt

Be Your Brand... and She will Melt by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

One of the most powerful things you as a man can do in a relationship is to ‘Be your brand’. That means living out your values and embodying your mission…

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​Authentic Communication: The Heartbeat of a Connected Relationship

​Authentic Communication: The Heartbeat of a Connected Relationship by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Everyone says they want “authentic communication” in their relationship.But do we actually know what that means?True communication isn’t just about honesty. It’s about presence.It’s about stepping into a conversation with…

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Why Does He Ignore Me When I Ask For Help? Assuming he’s not a bumb…

Why Does He Ignore Me When I Ask For Help?  Assuming he’s not a bumb… by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

I. Disclaimer: The easy knee-jerk reactionary answer to “Why doesn’t he help?” is simple: He’s a deadbeat; a lazy, selfish jerk. If you are, in fact, correct about that assertion, then…

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LEAH & RACHEL — YOUR DESTINY & YOUR DREAM

LEAH & RACHEL — YOUR DESTINY & YOUR DREAM by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Jacob worked seven years for his father-in-law to marry Rachel, the girl of his dreams.He woke up the next day to the realization that his father-in-law pulled the old switcheroo.…

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The Toxic Idealist -- How to Heal from a Life of Perfectionism

The Toxic Idealist -- How to Heal from a Life of Perfectionism by Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert

Perfectionism can have crippling effects on your life — on your emotional health, on your relationships, on your career, and more.Perfectionism is NOT the need for everything to be perfect.Perfectionism…

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