Content from Eli Deutsch, Relationship Expert
Most marriages that result in separation don’t just fall apart all of a sudden. They slowly go numb. There are couples that come to me when the house is functioning, the kids are…
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Many couples reach a point where the spark hasn't just flickered -- it feels extinguished. They describe it as living with a "roommate" or, worse, a "competitor." The conversations are…
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Let’s get one thing clear: every human being is inherently high value. Your essential worth isn’t something to be earned — it’s woven into the fabric of your existence.But what…
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We all want that feeling of being 'one' with our spouse. We want to be finishing each other's sentences and seeing the world through the same eyes. It’s the dream…
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Recently, I spoke with a woman who complained that her husband has become “passive” and “directionless.” When I asked how she responds when he does take the lead or when…
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Recently, I had a guy complain to me that his new wife gets emotional about everything. I asked him, “And who says that’s a problem? What if rational isn’t the…
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According to Kabbalah, in a relationship, the role of the male is to be a "mashpia" — a giver.But "Giver" doesn't mean to simply show up with roses, chocolate or…
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I want to share four things that is undermining couplehood and getting in the way of singles building lasting healthy meaningful relationships. If you’ve been searching for love without…
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The word *vulnerability* is often misunderstood. By definition, it means “capable of being wounded” or “open to attack.” No wonder so many associate it with weakness.But in reality, vulnerability is…
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Many people unwittingly undermine the emotional intimacy in their relationship because they are attached to a result, such as approval or agreement, and feel as if they can’t live without…
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A man who doesn’t have mastery over himself — his thoughts, his emotions, his body, his purpose — is seen as infantile and not trustworthy to a woman.And that means she *definitely*…
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He’s coming home late. And sometimes not at all.Maybe he “needs space”. Or maybe it’s gotten to the point where he’s half-moved-out.He finally comes back — what’s your next move?Ground…
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One of the most powerful things you as a man can do in a relationship is to ‘Be your brand’. That means living out your values and embodying your mission…
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Everyone says they want “authentic communication” in their relationship.But do we actually know what that means?True communication isn’t just about honesty. It’s about presence.It’s about stepping into a conversation with…
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I. Disclaimer: The easy knee-jerk reactionary answer to “Why doesn’t he help?” is simple: He’s a deadbeat; a lazy, selfish jerk. If you are, in fact, correct about that assertion, then…
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Jacob worked seven years for his father-in-law to marry Rachel, the girl of his dreams.He woke up the next day to the realization that his father-in-law pulled the old switcheroo.…
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Perfectionism can have crippling effects on your life — on your emotional health, on your relationships, on your career, and more.Perfectionism is NOT the need for everything to be perfect.Perfectionism…
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