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Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.

Coach, Dating, Relationship, Intimacy & Life Coach

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Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.
It is not about making the right or wrong decisions in life, it is about having clarity and being at peace with whatever decision you make.

Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.'s style

💙 Warm 👂 Listener 💡 Solution-oriented 🙏 Spiritual

Why Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S. chose to be in the helping profession

I love connecting with people and I love helping people connect with others. I grew up in a very open-minded, spiritual, and Sephardic home, where my parents spoke openly about the importance of our personal connection with Hashem, and that has been the cornerstone of everything I've ever accomplished. I truly believe that every person we meet is for a reason and that I came into this world to help others help themselves. I believe life is a journey and we end up where we are most needed.

With an early interest in psychology and helping, I embarked on a long and rewarding road to become a Psychology Professor. I have a Bachelors in Psychology and a Master’s in Neuroscience and Education from Columbia University and a Master’s in Education from the Azrieli Graduate School of Jewish Education and Administration.

I became a Kallah teacher since I had such a positive experience with my personal Kallah teacher I wanted to create that experience for others. This led to my having been involved in shidduchim for the past 9 years. Throughout those years, I became a dating and relationship coach. It was a gradual and organic process and I feel very blessed to be in a position to help others.

Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.'s approach

I am told I bring out the best in people and I look forward to discovering the best in you! I view coaching as a mirror, allowing you to see what is already inside. Through listening, questioning, and challenging, you will come to your own clarity of how you want to approach the situations we discuss. I will never tell you what to do, I will rather help you see, understand, and come to your own conclusions.

What you can expect from sessions with Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.

I aim to create a safe environment, where we can talk, discuss, question, and gain clarity together. We will set goals together depending on what you want to accomplish.

Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.'s experience working with the Jewish community

As a Kallah teacher, shadchan, and dating coach, I am well-versed in a multitude of aspects across Jewish communities. For years I volunteered my free time to help those in a very vulnerable and oftentimes painful chapter in life called shidduchim as this was and is my passion. 

I am looking forward to the opportunity of helping even more singles as I transition into allocating more time for dating coaching. My goal is to help you fall in love. First and foremost, with yourself.

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Languages spoken

English Spanish

People I work with

Adults Individuals

Personal religious affiliations


Jewish community experience



  • Masters of Science in Education & Neuroscience by Columbia University: Teacher's College 2013
  • Masters in Jewish Education by Yeshiva University: Azrieli Graduate School of Education 2012
  • Bachelor of Arts in Psychology by Yeshiva University: Stern College for Women 2011


  • Kallah Teacher by Jewish Marriage Education: Rebbetzin Tehilla Abramov 2015

Average costs per session

$120 - $150

Payment Methods

  • Zelle Quick Pay

What my clients have to say about working with me:

  • From the very first few minutes that I spoke to Raquel, I knew she got me. Her warm, empathetic, and nonjudgmental persona combined with her wealth of knowledge on relationships and dating is what makes Raquel so approachable and easy to speak to even about hard topics. She took the time to get to know me for who I am and is such a helpful and monumental part of my dating journey. I really recommend working with Raquel! There is nothing too small or big for her to help you with!"

  • "Raquel is my secret weapon. She gives me the space to formulate my own conclusions as well as see things from a greater perspective. She listens. She's patient. She's thoughtful. When I come to her before or after the fact, I glean clarity from our sessions. And she always makes me feel like a priority- I've learned to appreciate each experience as a part in the process and this makes it all so constructive."

  • "Raquel is a true gem in the world of dating coaching. Her intelligent, thoughtful and expert advice, honed by years of experience and her uniquely deep and on-target intuition, has so often been an absolute lifesaver for me. Her guidance and unwavering support have enabled me to approach dating with a newfound sense of confidence and ease, navigating even the most challenging situations with grace and poise and so much less stress than I used to experience. I am forever grateful for her guidance and support."

  • "Don't hesitate to reach out to Raquel! Whether she helped me break down my concerns, prioritize my values, understand my needs and wants, create a game plan to help me date more efficiently, or just navigate the confusing Shidduch world, Raquel, with her humble, yet empowering advice and gifted perception, is literally that shaliach that makes my journey that much easier. Make that call! You'll thank me later!"

  • "I've spoken to a lot of people and this was honestly the most helpful. She really gave me her full attention with no judgement at all! I felt like she really cared!

  • "Raquel is an amazing coach! She really makes sure every minute is spent wisely to ensure confidence and clarity in her daters. I especially appreciate about Raquel her care and concern after each meeting, she always made sure to check on me and see how things are going."

  • "I really like how Raquel is always there when we need. She is always good at responding to questions, easy to get a hold of. Really helps with getting through a hard time. She is non judgemental and really there for her clients"

  • "I just got engaged Baruch Hashem, and I have so much gratitude for the guidance and encouragement I received from Raquel during our sessions! From unsure and scared to confident and ready, I was able to navigate the dating process in the best way for me. I really couldn’t have done it alone, Raquel has so much wisdom to share and every conversation is filled with hidden gems, I never felt embarrassed or judged to share my thoughts with her. Coach Raquel is truly the best❤️ "

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