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Discomfort is the means of admission to leading a meaningful life." Susan David
Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP's style
🎯 Direct 💙 Warm 💪 Challenging 🌎 HolisticWhy Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP chose to be in the helping profession
I spent most of my career pursuing financial success. Along the way, however, I found myself relying on unhealthy coping mechanisms, which eventually led me to begin my own personal transformation journey. That journey included various types of therapy, healing, and coaching, each of which contributed to my growth in a different way. Of all the modalities I experienced, coaching was one of the most productive and transformative, along with the men’s group I was fortunate to be part of.
My own experience motivated me to bring these tools to other men who may be struggling with similar challenges. I know firsthand how powerful it can be to have a space where men can speak honestly, confront what is holding them back, and begin moving forward. This work brings me immense fulfilment and a sense of purpose that I did not find through financial success alone. Although it may be less financially rewarding, it is rewarding in many other, far more important ways.
Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP's approach
My approach is direct, yet compassionate. I create space for the authentic expression of raw emotion, without judgment or the expectation that a man needs to have everything figured out. At the same time, I push my clients to be honest with themselves and take the next step in their journey. I believe real growth requires both the freedom to feel what is there and the courage to do something with it.
Although my focus is men’s work, I do not neglect the holistic principles of health, wellness, and spirituality. I recognize the interconnectedness of the psyche, soul, and body, and I consider how each of these areas may be affecting a client’s life. Our work may explore emotional patterns, relationships, habits, purpose, and the deeper beliefs shaping the way a man moves through the world. My goal is to help each client develop greater clarity, personal responsibility, and a stronger connection to who he wants to become.
What you can expect from sessions with Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP
Each session is progressive, focused, and shaped around where you are and where you want to go. You can expect an honest conversation in which there is room to express what you are carrying, while also staying connected to the changes you want to make. We will look closely at what may be keeping you stuck and identify practical ways to move forward. I will support you with compassion, while also challenging you when that is what your growth requires.
By the end of each session, the goal is for you to leave with new clarity, a clear action plan, and momentum toward your desired future. This is not simply a space to talk about the same struggles without direction. We will work to turn insight into action and action into meaningful, sustainable change. Over time, the aim is for you to feel more grounded, intentional, and capable of creating the life you genuinely want.
Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP's experience working with the Jewish community
My immediate network of friends, family, and community is deeply embedded in Jewish communities across South Africa, Israel, and the United States. Through these connections, I have had the honour of working with Yidden from a variety of Jewish backgrounds and communities. I understand how deeply family, community, faith, and cultural expectations can shape a man’s inner world. This allows me to approach the work with sensitivity to both the challenges and the strengths that can come with Jewish life.
I love being able to bring Hashem into my work with men when that is meaningful to the person I am supporting. Spirituality can provide a powerful source of direction, connection, and strength, particularly during periods of struggle or change. In my spare time, I help troubled kids, and I have previously supported Yidden going through addiction. These experiences have strengthened my commitment to showing up for people with honesty, compassion, and a genuine belief in their ability to transform their lives.
Bentzy Goldman, ACC, NLP's Book Recommendation Zone
- Way of the Superior Man
David Deida - The Power of Now
Eckhart Tolle - Tanya
Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi
Approaches
- Attachment-based
- Life Coaching
- Logotherapy
- Mindfulness and Meditation
- Neuro-Linguistic (NLP)
- Sex Therapy
Concerns
3 years in practice
Trainings
- Executive Coach by International Coaching Federation 2023
Affiliations
- NLP Practitioner by Association of Integrative Psychology 2024
Average costs per session
$125 - $250
Payment Methods
- Free consultation
- Credit Card
- Zelle Quick Pay
- ACH Bank Transfer
What people have to say about working with me:
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“This experience was proper life changing. I didn't realise when I came into this what was really behind my behaviours and compulsions. I basically saw myself as weak and undisciplined, but after our few weeks of working together and the exercises he gave me (which were not easy), I finally feel like I can face the world and interact with women in the way a real man should. I'm forever grateful.”
Josh
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“I went into the coaching with Bentzy skeptical, I must be honest. But I can say now that his methods are no joke and I can see so much changes already. My relationship with women, with porn, and my ideas of sex is completely different. This is real stuff and I appreciate all your patience with me arguing about what I thought was the right way. Love you bro!”
Nir
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“I strongly recommend Bentzy as a coach. He is very direct but also understanding, which was helpful because of what I was going through and what I needed to get out of it. He gave me the tools I needed that therapy and other things I tried didn't. I really feel like I'm becoming a new person. My worldview has changed and I'm excited for the new chapter ahead.”
Mendy
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Bentzy is exceptionally intelligent, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned. He possesses both the analytical mind and the empathy that are essential for meaningful work in the helping professions. His natural proclivities clearly lie within the art and science of healing. He approaches people with sincerity, compassion, intellectual humility, and a genuine desire to understand rather than judge. He is highly reflective, motivated to continue learning, and demonstrates the maturity necessary to thoughtfully integrate new ideas into his work.
Sean David Roth, LMFT Verified